You put your luggage out the night before. I think by 10 or 11. Don't forget to leave clothes out to put on in the morning. The staff takes it all some where for the night and is taken off the boat. You will get tags the night before to put on your luggage. Each has a different character and colour. If you don't get your luggage out you will have to take it yourself and sometimes that doesn't make it easy with all the people getting off the boat.
The next day you go to breakfast that is assigned to you , early goes early and late goes later (8:00 I think for late). Same restaurant as the night before I think. Everyone has to be off the ship by 9:30 I believe but the ship has to be cleared by customs which never has been a problem.
Our TA from our the first time told us not to run off with everyone else if we don't have an early flight. Everyone will be gathered by the doors to leave. We usually walk the top decks, shoot some hoops etc. The go out.
Then you will go down the gangway...they well point you to different escalators down where you will pick up your luggage. They have divided into sections of the tags you put on your luggage. Ours was pluto last time. If you leave later it is easy to find your luggage because most will have already took theirs. There are porters again to help you find and take out your luggage. We usually just grab our own since it is one suitcase per person. Then you line up and go though customs. They are sitting at a podium thing .
Then you are out of the terminal and finding your transportation. If it is Disney transportation they will show you where to go.
You will be out in front of the terminal. Private drivers are usually waiting there for you with signs.
I am guessing your dad will be waiting in the parking lot for you because they really want the cars to keep moving in front. The drivers of the private cars leave you when they find you and go get the car. They tell you were to stand and wait.
All this will be told to you on Friday after you come back from
Castaway Cay. It is usually after the kids show. All the kids go on stage in different coloured t-shirts they get to keep. They show pictures on the screen of the kids playing in the clubs all week. It is fun to watch.
If you don't go to this talk that is ok because they show it on the TV all night long...

And your room steward will remind you too.
Wow I was long winded sorry.....