I have an extremely hard week emotionally, mentally and physically. Last Thursday my grandfather was admitted to the ICU for pneumonia caused by Covid. My dad was coming up on Saturday and called me on the way to see if I wanted to visit with my grandpa. I wasn't going to because of DD and the low antibodies but my dad seemed off and I got the feeling that things were not going well so I went to visit.
On Sunday, we got the call that the Assisted Living place DH's grandmother is at had her transported to the ER with lots of pain and oxygen was low (not too bad but still low). I met her at the ER where we found out she had a hole in her stomach. Mawmaw was worried because they were talking about surgery so I asked if she wanted me to stay with her and she wanted me to. At 3 am I got the call from my family that my grandfather was being put on comfort care since they declined the vent. I had DH come to stay with his grandmother while I went to be with my grandfather and family.
My grandfather passed away on Monday. By the time I got home I had been up for close to 40 hours. It took me 2 nights of 12 hours of sleep to feel like myself again. We have still been going to visit DH's grandmother. SHe is doing ok but not great. At one point I was worried about losing her too. Thankfully the hole seems to have healed but she has a bleed somewhere and they had to give her a blood transfusion. Things are still off but nothing very specific. We will head to see her after work today and will hopefully get more answers. She did tell me yesterday that she just wants to sleep until she is done. I think she is giving up. I think these next few weeks are going to be rough.
We did have some good this week. DD had her first infusion last night and everything went well. DS is sick but doesn't seem to be anything major. Just a fever, cough and congestion. COVID at home test was negative. He is heading off to the doctor today to get it checked.
I was really hoping that 2025 would be so much better then 2024 but it is not starting off that way.