Hi DM3,
I don't know how you feel about cities in general, but NYC is the ULTIMATE big city. It's HUGE, it's dirty (not grungy, but lots of exhaust fumes and people), it's VERY crowded. The cabs are pretty scary if you're not used to it = they are getting better but they still drive like maniacs. I used to go there on business a lot, and I had a few friends who went to NYU, so I had other familiar people to go with me. If you're comfortable with "winging it", then do a lot of research. Otherwise, I think you should go through a travel agent and plan things out as best as you can.
I think a 5 day trip to NYC would probably cost you more than a week in WDW. Even McDonald's doubles their prices in New York. Expect to pay around $8-$10 for a Big Mac - no kidding!
A decent hotel in NYC is going to run you around $250 a night minimum. Driving in NYC is not for the novice - if you've never driven in New York, then just DON'T. DH did it once and he said NEVER AGAIN!!!!
A train is a great way to go to New York, but I guess you're too far away for that. The train station is right under Madison Square Garden, you can walk to Macy's, and it's about 10 blocks to Broadway. You can hop a cab and take a short ride to 42nd Street. See a matinee, maybe grab something to eat.
Since 9/11, New York has gone out of it's way to welcome visitors, so it's not unfriendly or full of crime or anything. I don't want you to think I'm being negative about it, but I just want you to have realistic expectations. It's really different from any other big city - it's international and it honestly is HUGE!
Hi We live here on LI and go into the city quite a bit (about once a week), and while some of this is true with a little research you can do it pretty cheap. McDonalds is about $.50 to $1 more than anywhere else but not double. Also I am a Chicago girl born and raised but there is nothing like the excitement you feel walking around NYC. We love the city and woud love to live downtown but DH's jo is out here on the Island so we visit a lot! So restaurants even know us in the city. LOL
OK In the NY times this week there were some frugal in NYC tips but I have a few of my own.
Look for a hotel across the river in NJ or even in Brooklyn with a train station near. You can take the train into the city every day. You can get rooms for around $100 a night. And leave your car there. I drive in the city all the time but you really don't need to.
As far as attractions go the American Museum of natural history is a pay as much as you can museum so give what you think is OK. We are members there and payed quite a bit. I won't be mad if you go cheap! LOL
There are many ethnic places to eat...Little Italy is amazing and while it isn't cheap it is no more than a nice dinner at home. What is more restaurant wise are the chains...Hard Rock, Fridays, applebee's those places are more. If you eat local it isn't so bad. Isn't that the point of eating in NYC anyway?
Sometimes unless you have your heart set on a certain show you can get theater tickets the day of at half price.
Also we take our two girls on the busses and the subway with no issues. NYers really are friendly!
Seriously if you are gonna come here PM me and I can help. It doesn't have to cost a fortune.
I would love to help.
Heidi