I don't know what your talking about....there's some beautiful hotels out there! Better than Disney? Yes. Just returned a month ago from LaPlaya in Naples, FL, absolutely wonderful. Also the Portofino Bay Hotel, wonderful. The Bellagio, LV...beautiful (going again in 2 days). Maroma Resort, Mexico....breathtking....I could go on. I am comparing to the Gf and the Poly. Don't get me wrong we love WDW and go every year, but I wold not say they are "the best".
I am spoiled by cold herbal scented towels and having your body misted while on a caribbean beach. Coffee and muffins on your verandah while watching the sunrise, flower petals in a heart shape on your bed, knowing your name when you arrive, a butler to un pack and pack your bags. That's spoiled!