It's been nearly 8 year and I AIN'T OVER IT!

[Kteacher]

Not an oddball at all-you're a great guy! {{{{{hugs}}}}}to you

 

[flrose]

Not an oddball at all! Some days are just tougher than
others. Hang in there!

 

[kdibattista]

 

[dianeschlicht]

Not at all, and your wife was very lucky to have had someone like you love her.

 

[goofy4tink]

Don't ever feel badly about missing her. I don't think we ever get over it. It's a forever thing. We just get 'used' to it. Not an oddball in the least. And if you were to be an 'oddball', well then....you would be my kind of oddball.

 

[Kitty 34]

You will always miss her ,Kirk and that's OK and normal!! I lost my best friend four years ago and will probably never be able to talk about her without getting tears in my eyes.

{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

 

[snoopy]

{{{Kirk}}} - I can't imagine losing my spouse. I'm so sorry for your loss. 8 years is not very long. Try and dwell on the happy memories you have of her to help get you through it and make your grief less profound.

Sending you so many {{{{hugs}}}} today Kirk.

 

[Serena]

She must have been someone really special. {{{{hugs}}}}

 

[Pooh67_68]

 

[Credit Man]

Hang in there, Kirk.

 

[FINFAN]

No Kirk..not odd at all, just human. You have a lot going on these days, happy times and sometimes those are when we miss a loved one the most. I am glad you posted because all your friends here care. Hang in there.
Pam

 

[MickeysMommy]

 

[Pin Wizard]

I'm so sorry it's as difficult as it is, Kirk. It's been 11 years and 4 months for me since my husband died. Losing a spouse is so hard, especially when they're young! You don't expect that in the least. Of course it's difficult to get past that pain. I was at 11 years before I even seriously considered dating someone. Everyone has their own timing for things. Bless you and your kids!

 

[ead79]

Kirk, you are in my prayers. I am so sorry for your loss, and I don't think it is the slightest bit odd for you to still miss your wife. {{{HUGS}}} in abundance for you and your family.

 

[zakatak]

I can relate to the time... never seems to get easier.

Take Care,

Karen

 

[Mimi Q]

So sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine how that would feel.

 

[kimber79]

 

[helenabear]

So sorry you are feeling the pain... sadly I know you are not alone Hang in there...

 

[mckryan]

Kirk,

I am a relative newbie here, and not many people really know me well, but I've been reading a lot of messages. The ones I see from you are always cheerful and upbeat, even under the toughest circumstances. It is always difficult to lose a loved one, but I can't imagine how hard it is when you are the one left behind to pick up the pieces with a young family. With your daughter getting ready to give birth to your grandchild, it's only natural to really be feeling the loss of your wife. This is her first grandchild, too, and she should be there to share in the joy. While she may not be there physically, you know that she is by your side ever day. I think what you are going through right now is completely natural. Hang in there because you're going to be a busy grandpa very soon!!

 

[believe]

I can't even imagine...but it kills me watching my Dad go through it, next week is 3 months.