Lady Lallie
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Not preachy at all, I like talking to someone who tells it like it is! I wish I lived close enough to my mom to have her watch future child. But we live about 70 minutes away and that just doesn't work. We would love for me to work part time but I don't see it happening, who knows though. Some of DF's cousins are having babies so down the road we might be able to do a childcare share thing. Of course MIL has offered to watch future baby on her day off but luckily that is DF's day off too.I just want you to know that I do not at all mean to come off as preachy. I just am so open about my experiences, because I hope that if my "wisdom", if it may be called such, can help someone else out, then things I've gone through will be even more worth it. There's so many things I didn't know, or realize, and I'm just so happy to share.
I am very lucky that I work part time, and my mother watches DS for me. Actually, it's become a whole family affair. My mom does her business out of my nana's house, so when she needs to go to work, my nana comes over and stays with DS till my mom is done. I am so lucky.If you can swing the opposite schedules thing, good for you. A lot of people do it, and I applaud them. It seems hard, but totally worth it.
Our apartment is so small that wherever I go I can still hear....Usually my DH will go in a different room. If not, I do.![]()
They are done now and no dinner invites for the weekend.
I need as little interaction as possible until after the wedding stress and then my coping skills will be better.
If you can swing the opposite schedules thing, good for you. A lot of people do it, and I applaud them. It seems hard, but totally worth it.
MIL already offered to come and we both shouted, "NO!" at the same time.
We had these huge envelopes because we sent each guest an 8x8 scrapbook page to do instead of a traditional signature guest book. They are supposed to send it back with their reply. I am really looking forward to looking at all of the different things everyone does. A lot of the wedding has been do it yourself. My mom made my dress, DF's aunt is making the cake, my aunt is the photographer, we made the invites, the centerpieces....almost everything. I should post pics of the invites...I love them. I feel like I don't talk enough about the happy wedding stuff.


Ahh well, it's just an expensive week for me...Wilderness Lodge....$52 at Michael's. I can't wait to work on my binder tomorrow. After purchasing all that fun stuff, I have decided I am going to make it a planning/memory/keep it forever binder. I highly doubt I will use everything I bought so I will just save it for the next one! DF is cute, he said if it makes me happy and busy so be it. I took full advantage of this mentality.
I am very excited. Makes the trip even more real.
I feel like I'm forgetting to comment on something, but oh well! I will try to remain faithful to the DIS and read updates each day. Hope you have a nice weekend!
