Is your spouse or SO *physically" attractive?

[Papa Deuce]

I'll do this as a poll so people don't have to come forward. And the reason I ask is a guy I work with is always saying something like " my wife ain't the best looking ( woman ) out there but"..... and then whatever he finishes his statement with.

I find it kind of odd that someone would say their SO is not physically attractive in front of others. Like, take me for instance.... definitely just average when at my very best..... but I can't imagine my wife coming out and saying I was ugly or unnattractive.

So, on a scale of 1 -10 how physically attractive is your SO? I put myself squarely in the 4-5 range.

Please try to be objective, and discount the fact that you love him or her. Just take the question at face value.

EDIT: And, if you want to answer this, how much does a person's physical atractiveness play into your attraction to a person?

 

[iggbees]

ok, ok, i voted 10. to me, my so is the best looking man. i find him extremely attractive. i couldn't imagine dating anyone else. i met him through a friend and i was frightened that i wouldn't be attracted to him when we met in person, because we could talk for hours, but i was happily surprised when we did meet and just how attractive i did find him. i wouldn't trade him for anything in the world.

i don't really care if other people find him attractive and i'd never say something negative about the way he looks. i wouldn't have dated him if i found him unattractive. i'm very vain like that.

edited: i didn't love my so before i met him. if that answers your question. when i met him i knew he was the one, i couldn't even look him in the eye because i was nervous about how attractive he found me, because i thought he was pretty darn hot. all of my friends tell me how attractive he is as well. and yes, i've seen really hot girls flirting with him.

 

[scrump]

My DH is the most attractive person to me, so I voted 10. I also can't imagine telling people how unattractive one's spouse is.

From personal experience, I think physical attractiveness is ultimately unimportant to being attracted to somebody in the end. Granted, it helps in the beginning, but I have ended up being very attracted to a guy (pre-DH)who was a "2" when I first met him. As I got to know him, he was so funny, smart and worldly, that the "2" in him became a "10."

 

[tiggersmom2]

I think my hubby is wildly attractive...obviously...see my tag! My hubby also thinks I am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. I guess looks were important to me (but I was only 20 when I married my hubby). I wanted the best of both worlds...looks and personality and I got it!

 

[Papa Deuce]

I don't think you two are taking the question to heart even if your SO's are good or great looking. The idea is to be objective here. Would your SO turns heads? Would people look and fantasize? Not saying that they aren't 10s, but not following the meaning of the question asked.

 

[tiggersmom2]

I don't think you two are taking the question to heart even if your SO's are good or great looking. The idea is to be objective here. Would your SO turns heads? Would people look and fantasize? Not saying that they aren't 10s, but not following the meaning of the question asked.

Yes Papa, my hubby turns head wherever we go....as do I. Did that answer your question?

 

[mudnuri]

i'm probably shallow in this case, but physical attraction is huge for me. If I cant sit and stare at you, how can I carry on a conversation with you.....

Brandy

 

[Papa Deuce]

Yes Papa, my hubby turns head wherever we go....as do I. Did that answer your question?

Sure. I've known for a while now about your hubby. That tag has been there a long time. I was referring to the previous two posters.

 

[jamzots]

I think that personality can definately play an important role in how you see that person. If the person has the worst personality but is absolutely gorgeous wouldn't that effect the way you see the person, and vice versa, someone that's not so good looking but has an awesome personality, could see that person as beautiful. However, I cannot imagine anyone stating to other people "my S.O. isn't the best looking person, but" Who says this anyway?

 

[Papa Deuce]

I think that personality can definately play an important role in how you see that person. If the person has the worst personality but is absolutely gorgeous wouldn't that effect the way you see the person, and vice versa, someone that's not so good looking but has an awesome personality, could see that person as beautiful. However, I cannot imagine anyone stating to other people "my S.O. isn't the best looking person, but" Who says this anyway?

Well, I'm not gonna say the context in which it was mentioned, but you can probably guess, and be correct......

 

[TDC Nala]

Can't vote in your poll, I don't have an SO. But this guy should shut up about how he thinks his wife looks. How rotten is that, to go saying that sort of thing to people. And I don't think anyone should be asked by strangers to "subjectively" judge his or her spouse that way.

 

[jamzots]

Well, I'm not gonna say the context in which it was mentioned, but you can probably guess, and be correct......

OOOOHHHHH, Now I get it! Duh!

 

[scrump]

I don't think you two are taking the question to heart even if your SO's are good or great looking. The idea is to be objective here. Would your SO turns heads? Would people look and fantasize? Not saying that they aren't 10s, but not following the meaning of the question asked.

My first post still stands.

 

[Papa Deuce]

I admire whoever put the "2"..... shows you can get past looks..... like my wife did!

 

[bsnyder]

I have objective evidence of my husband's attractiveness. He was voted best looking in his senior class. And if there had been a vote for nicest guy, he would have gotten that vote too.

 

[Philadisney]

i think my SO is dreamy. i can't figure out what he is doing with me!

 

[mushumadness]

my dbf whos 26, turns heads and I admit I dont like that he does

Hes 6ft 3 dark hair, but its his eyes, theyre like water blue and stand out more because of his hair

I have known women ask him out when I am sat there too!!!

 

[Jackie0824]

I will be honest, my husband is just average looking. Obviously, when you meet somebody you have to be attracted to them in some way. But as they say "beauty is in the eye of the beholder".What I find attractive, somebody else doesnt.
I voted he was a 5. I would say Im average, or when Im feeling blue, I say Im below average. I just think we are 2 average people, either one of us would win any beauty contests.

 

[shortbun]

My girlfriends say my husband is one of the "hot dads!" lol! He IS extremely handsome!!!! A cross between Tom Selleck and George Clooney.

 

[LindsayDunn228]

I can't speak for other women and their thoughts as my hubby walks by, but I think (and my opinion is all that matters) he is an absolute hunka-hunka-burnin-Pooh Bear My husband has quite the baby face and looks NOTHING of his 33 years. I am being totally objective and honest.

*LindsayDunn228's husband speaking here*
Lindsay, or Kitty to me, is red hot!!