doubt dh cares enough to read here, although he is welcome to. could find it just by searching history or looking thru favorites. my sisters and bil are dis members and know my name, so they have seen my posts from time to time.
funny thing the op's post made me think about. when dh and I were separated I was part of a message board community that was for people who were having marital problems. it was an awesome place, and very helpful to me. the separation was the last thing I wanted, and while I was open and honest about everything on the board, I also did not use my real name, and deleted the history whenever dh came over to see the kids, etc. I thought I was so stealthy! and I knew for sure that he was not a message board guy so wouldn't be interested even if I wasn't so sure he couldn't find anything. silly me, he did find something (a printout I had hidden away) and found me and read every single post on that board. so even though I would have sworn I couldn't be found there, I easily was. it was a lesson learned. (and also a blessing in disguise...it was one of the things that brought us back together).