I think a persons reading ability has to play a part. If the thread is huge I would expect duplicate posts. Some people are quick readers some aren't. Like posted above reading a few pages in the beginning and again at the end should give you the gist of where its at. But honestly after thinking about it some, whatever, people are gonna post what they like, where they like, and when they like, read it or don't.
I had no idea this thread related to someone specifically. Thats not nice.
It doesn't. I crabbed at at least three people about posting when they haven't read, I linked this thread to an earlier thread that I was participating in because other people were like, yes, it's annoying to me, too, and I said, yeah, I've been venting about it on the thread I created today, here it is.
I think the real issue is, is that some people think that a thread is simply a place to reply to the OP, and some see it as an organic whole that grows and matures based on the people who participate in it.
Like, I like looking someone in the eyes when I talk to them. I don't enjoy talking to a pair of eyeballs sitting on the table.
I think the same thing applies to a thread-if it's a monster thread, then there's a reason for it that has far outgrown just the OP's original question.
To pretend all those other responses don't even exist is the same as just seeing the eyeballs and disregarding the rest of the body.
I guess if you think the OP is just talking to you and all the rest of the voices on the thread mean nothing, then, ok, but I'll still think you're missing the big picture.
....as far as begging the Tag Fairy goes, I'm fairly sure I pissed him/her off at some point (what me shocker!), as well, so it was definitely a secondary wish/joke.