It takes someone with no knowledge of the subject matter to say that. My son has a severe peanut allergy. In your opinion, either we feed the rest of the family peanuts while he has something else, or we are singling out our son as an oddball.
The rest of the family happily dropped all peanut foods out of the family menues years ago. We all eat what is safe for him, because to do otherwise is to endanger him. That is hardly "suffering." Not sure why that is such a negative thing in your humble opinion, but maybe you should stick to posting about refridgerators.