It's not that the magic has gone for us, there was just something that I couldn't really put my finger on whilst we were there.
Don't get me wrong my kids adored it but it wasn't until the last day when we finally met Minnie that I realised exactly what it was. There were little moments of magic throughout the whole trip, Skye's face lit up when Belle waved and blew kisses to her as she walked from the Princess Pavillion, Coles when woody noticed him waving frantically during the parade and pointed and waved straight back.
You see, for us with our children at the ages they are, character interaction plays a HUGE part. Unfortunately being close in age and the ages they are means queuing for hours at a time just isn't possible, they wind up bickering and pushing each other and it's not a fun experience for anyone. That said each one on their own is a lot more patient so perhaps next time DH will split up for the longer queues!
For me, if I went on my own or just with DH it would be whole different story. I could sit for hours taking in all the detail and I agree that that is what makes it magical for me. I wouldn't be interested in characters really so that wouldnt make a difference to me.
The magic wasn't missing as such, it was still there when we walked up main st for the first time it was like we'd never been away and I was still sad to leave.
I think it really does depend on your circumstances and interpretation of what makes it magical. I can 100% see where people are coming from but it doesn't change that there was I little bit of me that was disappointed this trip.
Our final day was the best.Despite it being rushed because we got held up for hours in cafe mickey. Coles giggling bashful face whenever he sees Minnie (as he's had a crush since she told him she loved him during
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) Skye falling into Tiggers lap when he held his arms out to hug her and being giggling her head off because he then tickled her to the ground. Those are the moments that REALLY make it for us and there just weren't as many off those this time.
I have friends that have just come back with loads of pics as they queued for a lot of the meet and greets during the afternoon. We never seemed to be around then as usually took the children back to the hotel to nap. Our friends only managed to watch Dreams once because their LOs were exhausted. They said that although they had a nice time, they wouldn't rush back and certainly wouldn't return yearly. I think they did too much, ended up with extremely tired children and found it a bit of a struggle whereas we usually take it at a much more relaxed pace but this approach didn't seems to work so well for us this year as it does usually.
One of the things that makes me want to try again in December is that Dreams will be on so much earlier that we can really make the most of the afternoon meet and greets. I honestly think that will make a huge difference.