No. Just because they are working to make things better does not mean they should throw their own kids onto the fire to make a point. Depending on the school district it might underscore that more needs to be done but it doesn't make him/her a hypocrite. I would never ever ever throw my kids to the wolves to appease someone, that's unconscionable. Do you really think everyone on the planet who volunteers for something should subject their own families to whatever it is they are trying to improve? Should homeless shelter volunteers move their families into a shelter? Should Meals on Wheels volunteers only feed their families the same food? Probably not, so why is it expected here?
My kids are in public school because they are in the upper tracks. Private schools simply can't keep up with public funding for programs on either side of the special needs spectrum. However, if I had 2 average middle of the road kids mixed in with the masses then they would both be in private school because there the social restrictions become more relevant. Or, if I had a kid with social troubles then, again, the tighter reigns on social behaviors would become extremely important to me and I would pay for that difference if necessary.
Also, the fact that a parent wants religious education means that family has needs that simply will not be met in a public school setting. Saying that sort of education should be compared to public education is like saying The Mall is the same as Church.
I understand that having officials kids in the schools makes other parents feel like they have a vested interest in the schools, however, a parents job is to do for their own first. Any parent who wouldn't do the best for their kids without exception is not an adult I want near my kids. Children are not and should never be props.
I know this comes off sounding harsh, I don't mean to be. I just happen to think some things should be off limits and kids should be one of them.