I blame both...I blame WDW because the place has become too complicated and no I dont think they inform you well if people are saying they got their info packets after their windows. And in today's world no one wants to call, they want it right there when they book. My DH is actually quite the planner, he planned an entire trip up the coast of CA, places to eat, whale watches etc in less time than it takes to plan a WDW vacation. But my DH has no patience to read all these sites, he is just like your average planner. I am the obsessive reader of other sources. He will go to the WDW website and find something out and then consult me...like taking the 3 FPs offered and then tweaking them for your times. It doesnt say you can do that on the
MDE. DH said it should be a drop down menu with the times left and the quantity, and I agree. Very few vacation spots charge you for a possible no show fee for dining. They want you to have flexibility and this fee squashes that. No family should have to stop say having fun in the pool to go to a dinner, and if they cancel they should not be charged, not this 24 hour thing. Or if it is thunderstorm I should not have to worry about a fee so I can make a dinner somewhere. I should just be able to cancel. And they have made it a place that one cant book a last minute trip if they dont know what they are doing. And WDW is unique as most places you can get into the restaurants of the hotel you are staying in, they cater to those guests, not at WDW, so that is unique for them and most people dont understand that if they are staying at the Poly why they cant eat there when they arrive.
I have had numerous friends who have asked for my help but I am going to highlight the most recent 3, all very smart ladies, who wanted to take their families to WDW for a fun vacation.
A called and asked for my help...we met at Panera, and over some danish, I walked her through planning a trip, talked about hotels, talked about MBs, ADRs, FPs, F&W etc. She bought the Unofficial Guide and was completely ready when the windows for each opened up. They had a fabulous time. She started at the 7month mark.
C is my SIL's sister. She mentions at a family gathering that she just booked a trip in Jan for President's Day week staying at CBR. I asked without trying to freak her out. if she was able to get any ADRs and FPs, she didnt even know what they were. She just thought her kid had off, let's go have fun. I explained some things briefly and let it go. She then went home and tried to play around and was unable to book anything. She then called me and said she moved the trip to May, what did I think. I told her that would probably be better but anything under 6 mos would be a challenge. She said ok. Then I see her at the end of March and the bachelorette party, I asked her if she is getting excited. She said she still hasnt done anything. She has been too busy and will get around to it. I could tell I wasir not getting through to her. She finally messaged me when we got home from the party and asked for my help. She was extremely upset about not getting into Chef Mickey as all her son's friends had talked about it. I reminded her that people started booking at 6 months. She still could not believe that people plan that far out. I told her if their goal was to see Mickey then she could book other places, they wound up at Tusker House and loved it. But I see this all the time, people thinking there is only one place or that is the best so they have to go there. Then it was FPs, she could not believe how cumbersome the MDE was to make FPs and was glad for the tips I gave her bc none of WDW's selections were things they wanted to do. They had a good time, she wished she had planned more and knew more. She was just too busy and thought it would be like any amusement park, walk in grab a map and go.
L, I am not sure if her family will ever get to WDW bc even though she went as a young adult this was prior to FPs and she wants no part of being tied down to anything, that is not her personality. I have tried selling it in a manner that can work for her, we have been friends for over 30 years, I know her. But besides booking a date, she wants to be able to go with the flow, I told her that could be possible and maybe just schedule a few things, but the minute I say she might not be able to walk up to a restaurant and eat she wants no parts of it.
My point in highlighting these 3 different viewpoints is that WDW should be able to accommodate all kinds of guests and I think with many of the recent changes, FP+, cancellation fees etc, it makes it more daunting or makes the possibility of disappointment that much greater.