I sort of blame Disney advertising. It's all about the magic and wishes and dreams, and all the characters are just right there and everyone's eating and happy. And it makes it seem so easy and carefree. But I think the truth is it lies somewhat with Disney and somewhat with the guests.
Friends went in January. This is a planner, and she had no idea about meet and greet lines, about ADRs etc. She booked BBB for her little girl, but showed up at the meet and greets AT the time expecting to just walk up. The Line cut off every single time and her little one was left crying when the last one cut right in front of her. They bought day tickets on the day, so no pre-booking FPs. They did on the day for the rides, but even I (who'd been there early 2013 without kids) had no idea you could/should get character FPs. And she didn't realise the need to get there 1/2 an hour before.. Ironically the only characters they managed to meet were Anna and Elsa (the hardest!) as her daughter finished up her BBB appointment. But she just expected that it would be like it was when she was there as a child. And we didn't think to tell her differently partly because we didn't know about the new system, and because she's such an over planner in every other area that we thought she'd have it together.
I booked my offsite accommodations a year before the trip after researching them for several months before that. I booked my flights the day the reward flights became available and I stalked them every day for 3 months. I read everything on the Disney site, made an
MDE account, researched
ticket prices etc, and looked into reservations. I tried to book BOG somewhere around 180 days out, but the site was glitchy and said it couldn't check that date yet, so after a few tries I figured maybe only onsite guests could. I tried again around 90 days out (still early by any other vacation standard) and of course they were all gone. Tbh they may have all been gone even if I'd got through at 180 days. After a week of stalking the website I called reservations on the off chance they could see something, and they had a lunch pop up. I grabbed it. This was our dream Disney Christmas trip and I'd take what I could to make it magical. And I kept checking back for the 'perfect' reservation, and planned to try again each MK day in person.
Although I'd been googling and researching for months, reading blogs, reading forum posts related to my questions, I was mostly relying on my own previous experience, google searches, friends and the WDW site. It's only really the past 2 weeks that I truly discovered this forum properly and have found out so much more. But due to medical issues I haven he time to truly immerse myself in it. Not everyone has that luxury. And it's been super helpful with a lot of the new things in place, and learning tips and tricks I never knew. I learned about touring plans and the lines app and OMGosh has that been a game changer. I'm still going to go with the flow, but to have that plan of action will really help.
Anyway, all this to say I don't consider myself a novice (but I'm definitely not a pro like Manu of you), and even I struggled to find the appropriate HELPFUL info direct from Disney -especially as we didn't book anything (except our
MVMCP) tickets and a couple of ADRs through them. But as someone else said it would have been helpful if the site REALLY highlighted the need for reservations. And again though not a novice, we rarely do TS at the parks, so had never really understood the need for this.
Sorry for the babble. I just think there's much more to it than either/or.
(Side note, I did get out perfect dinner reservation for BOG through a lady on here giving up hers on the might of our party tickets, and opi managed to snag a Yak & Yeti last minute for lunch for a surprise bday for hubby. He knows about the reservation, but his birthday is the week before so he's not expecting it, cast member said she'd note it even though it was past).