Internet Child Safety Just a reminder UPDATED 3-07

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Safety tips for kids

It's a good idea to create a list of rules for your kids to follow every time they're online. You may even want to post these rules near the computer. Here are three suggestions.

1.Never give out your name, phone number, address, passwords, social security number, or credit card numbers.

2.If something on the computer makes you feel uncomfortable, turn it off.

3.Never agree to meet someone in person that you met online.

Ready, set, game:

Learn how to keep video gaming safe and fun

Tips for parents to help kids play it safe with online games

Published: November 4, 2004
Video games, especially those featuring online or multiplayer options, are now equal to or fast exceeding the appeal of television, music, and movies for children and young adults. By educating yourself about the gaming community, game ratings, and how to use the privacy and safety tools built into the games, you can help keep your child's gaming experiences safe, age-appropriate, friendly, fun, and even educational.

The following are a few basic tips on how you can make informed decisions to help protect your child when they play games and compete online.

• Educate yourself. Become familiar with game ratings and privacy statements, and review each online gaming site's terms of acceptable use. See the Xbox Live code of conduct page as an example.

• Observe. Check out the games your children play and whom they play with. Place the computer or game console (for example, Microsoft Xbox) in a place where it can be easily monitored if needed, and take an interest in the games your children play.

• Set rules. You should do this before your child goes online, and be comfortable that he or she understands them. Typical rules include limiting play time, playing with off-line world friends only, and never chatting with strangers or giving out any personal information, including the child's real name or where they live. For some ideas on how to set up house rules, read Family contracts: Web code of conduct for kids.

• Monitor game chats and messages. If a player is using inappropriate language, encourage your child to tell you and you may be able to select their name from the players list to mute or block their messages, or you can report them to game administrators using e-mail, chat, or feedback. Check the game site in question for more information.

• Ensure privacy. Advise your kids to never give out any personal information (for example, their name, age, gender, or home address), pictures of themselves, or agree to meet someone in person, when using online chats. Make sure they know to tell you immediately if someone asks them for this information.

• Use voice chat wisely. Some game systems allow voice chatting with other players through the use of a headset. (This is not recommended for younger children.) See your computer or game console manual for more information about this feature.

Note: Voice masking or cloaking technology that can disguise a child's real voice is now available for computers and most game consoles, such as Microsoft Xbox. Note that adults can mask their voice, too, however, and not everyone is necessarily who they say they are.

• Choose appropriate names. Have your child use suitable screen or character names (also called gamertags) that follow the rules of the game site. These names should not reveal any personal information or potentially invite harassment.

• Be aware of cyberbullies. Learn how to deal with bullies in online games, also known as griefers. To find out more about griefers, read 10 tips for dealing with game cyberbullies and griefers.

• Teach your kids cybersafe habits. Tell your kids that if they feel uncomfortable with anything that's going on in a game, they should stop playing and tell you about it immediately, so you can record and report the issue if necessary.

• Participate. One of the safer ways for your kids to play online games is if you play with them. This may be the last thing they want to do, especially if they're older kids, but it's a good way to help them learn how to deal with others online while still having fun.




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Mal
 
Mal-

This is a great piece of information and should probably be a sticky...

Thanks for thinking of everyone and keeping us safe. :goodvibes
 
Thank you so much for these tips Mal!

Although we do not have children, I would hate to think that there are truly negative things happening on the outside of my bubble, centered around VMK. Children are naive and gullible and that scares me.

I think it is very important for parents to review the above tips and monitor their children's activity.
 
And that is why I play VMK to be a good parent and know what my kids are up to! :smooth:

But seriously, thanks Mal for the info - I have been very happy that VMK has been my girl's initiation to the internet. It has opened some good conversations about internet usage, etc. They are very proud to point out to people how safe it is! (not telling ages, etc)

Lee Ann princess: princess:
 

thanks everyone I just thought these were really good reminders...this is not only directed to gameplay but since alot of our children are also posters here on the DIS directed at what they might received here in there inbox as well.


Be safe and Happy VMKing everyone!


Mal
 
Bravo for posting this!! I saw a telelvision show last week about bad adults who look for little kids online. Its absolutely frightening to hear about and see what dangers there are for kids. I know sometimes it gets frustrating when someone gets a two hour ban for an offhand remark or saying something that might reveal personal information, but I am glad that the big white glove errs on the side of caution. Kids and parents, please always be accutely aware of who you are chatting with, and its never ok to give personal information without your parents permission. Thanks Mal for the important info!
 
I do think its funny that everyone worries the boogie man is going to get their kid because he knows that he/she lives in texas, yet lets them go to the mall with their friends or heck, even outside anymore. Still good tips though.
 
I do think its funny that everyone worries the boogie man is going to get their kid because he knows that he/she lives in texas, yet lets them go to the mall with their friends or heck, even outside anymore. Still good tips though..

I do not think that anyone is worried(other than VMK)that anyone knows that xxx has a child and they live in Texas....there is alot more to it than that.

Call me overprotective but I do not know what age group you are referring to but my son does not go the "Mall" with friends alone or even outside to play alone. I still do not let him go to the Mens unless his father is with him and not sure when I will LOL

Mal
 
Thanks for those great tips, Mal!
I'm very scared too that something will happen to my kids, online and just outside in our backyard.
That's why i'm playing vmk, just to have fun of course, but also to see who is all out there..
 
Mal, while I appreciate your diligence and everyone's concern to keep our children safe, how can we keep them safe when adult men and women who are being banned from VMK due to inappropriate sexual behavior are simply creating another character and popping right back into our midst. My children are watched while they are on screen. Is every other parent doing the same thing?
 
eloisemommy said:
Mal, while I appreciate your diligence and everyone's concern to keep our children safe, how can we keep them safe when adult men and women who are being banned from VMK due to inappropriate sexual behavior are simply creating another character and popping right back into our midst. My children are watched while they are on screen. Is every other parent doing the same thing?

I am not sure what you are talking about, I am sure it happens, but at the end of the day it is not any Moderators or WMs or Disneys responsiblity to watch over the children it is the parents job.

I have added a new link to the first post for parents..wired safety.



Mal
 
Im no adult (Teen) but i just think that is vary good thing to post about and if you click is this fair??!!!! post It says about what happened to me



This guy ive known for a long time said he wanted to have s*x wit me an i said no and then he vanished i message him saying whats "text" Mean and Then i got banned for a month! i told my parents and they where surprised.But They made me watch internet predators On CNN and i got the idea what he wanted me to do .


and they made us do the disneys surfwell island in Computer class at school
 
That is a great information for all kids in vmk.Thanx for all that time putting that great information. :disrocks: :tinker:
 
Kids should also not mention their city, school or school mascot. Just giving one of those gives predators the little step the need to gaining trust and getting more information. It's sad but bad ppl are everywhere.
 
i know its ridiculous how dangerous vmk is my dad made me stop doing it because well what people said. some people are sick! :crazy2: :crazy2:
 














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