I just live in a different, cheaper reality than many here. I made it through school with no car, four girls sharing a cheap 2 bdrm 1 bath place, etc. Yes, I even managed to grocery shop and go to the laundromat on a bus! I expected my kids to do the same. My son that went to a big school in the city used a bus pass bought on a special student discount. My son that went to a rural school had plenty of off campus shared housing options within walking distance to school. (both boys moved off campus into nearby shared housing after freshman year because it was cheaper.)
College is expensive. It's even more expensive for those that won't economize because they can't pay for the whole thing so they might as well just pile up the loans. I really can't understand why some people think that looking for cheaper options to lesson your loan burden isn't possible.
I'm going to round numbers with great license here to make a point so don't nitpick the numbers. My point is doing what you can to keep it down rather than just taking out loans for the price listed on the school website. My kid's state schools listed anticipated cost was about 25K a year including housing. Generally they got by on about 20K a year because they lived lean. If you can work and earn 5K a year, have parents contributing 5K (yes, I realize not all kids have parents than can/will help but I figure most parents can at least give some food money or the kids can live at home or with another family member and if they can't those kids might get grants,) can try to find 5 K of academic scholarships by looking not just at their school but also private scholarships, that leaves about 5K on loans each year - so a best case scenario totals 20K which I think is a doable loan amount. Even if you can't find scholarships and you have to double it, 40K is not so terrible if you plan to live like a student after graduation to kick it down fast for a while. (In my case, we had prepaid tuition points so they didn't have to do loans but they are still living cheaply for a while to jump start savings/investments. One has a great job, but three roommates and the other is at home for a while.) The problem I've seen students have is not working, not economizing, and just taking out loans for all of it thinking that's what you do. They think it's not possible, so they don't try. "I can only make about 4K a year working so why bother." 4K less in loans a year is a big deal!