We were there, minus the home theatre, pool, about half the house and a few other things, but we spent more than we made. For most of us, it isn't like we run a budget and say "wow, we spent 110% of what we made, oh well!" We didn't budget and didn't realize, or look, to see what went out or what came in. The important thing is to wake up and realize the American dream is actually the American nightmare.
The good thing is that it is simple to fix, just not easy. Living on a budget doesn't mean you can't go to DW, it just means you save up for it. So many people justify a vacation because they may be hit by lightning tomorrow, when all you have to do is save money.