Interesting question.
Two of my favorite resorts ended up on the latest Travel and Leisure "Best Of" list. None of the WDW resorts did, although Vero made it to one of the lists, and
DCL made it to the cruise list at #6.
I love the Rimrock in Banff, and the Mirror Lake Inn in Lake Placid. Both are impeccable. Theming? To a degree. Both are nestled in their respective mountain areas, with sweeping views.
The Mirror Lake Inn has some rooms themed with an Adirondack style. Other parts of the resort are also themed in this manner, the library, the indoor pool area. The room we always stay in is not though--it has beautiful cherry furnishings. The service there is extraordinarily friendly and gracious, the staff makes it known that they are happy because their employers and guests give them a reason to be. The room prices vary so much depending on view, season, and room type that it's hard to compare, but the room we always stay in is about the same cost as a similar room at WDW. I very much like their policies on children--they are welcomed as long as they behave, but they will not allow children to disrupt other guests, and they can and will be asked to leave if they do, with a zero tolerance policy in the formal dining room. The restaurants there have always been excellent in terms of food and service.
The Rimrock rooms are also beautifully appointed. The service there is not quite as "friendly", although it's gracious. The prices there are slightly lower than comparative prices at WDW, partially due to the exchange rate. The resort doesn't really have much theming, although the sleeping rooms are incredibly appointed with outstanding views. The restaurants there are not as good as one would expect for a resort of that calibre. The spa is to die for.
Anne