3DisneyKids
More Drink, Less Run...Since 2008
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I am totally lmao .... at Kat's reason for why she edited her last post!



Kat...do we need to get the short bus for you???![]()
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Dawn--I am so excited for you (for you both!) that I am not going to be able to sleep tonight!![]()
I am such a hopeless romantic....
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I am totally lmao .... at Kat's reason for why she edited her last post!![]()
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Thank you Kat...I am sitting here crying because I was so worried that people would think I was a horrible person for not waiting until the divorce was officially over...but the truth is...I have been seperated for 14 months and have not looked back in any loving way...I have struggled so hard to hold it all together...
He threw a plastic hanger in front of Carsyn and Baylor at me Wednesday night...if it would have hit me...the velocity would have been enough to open up my head...and I kept thinking...why am I being respectful to him? Why am I hoping it connects so I have a justifiable reason to get him out and not me be looked at as an insensitive bi@ch.
All I want is for him to have a good, safe place for our kids to be with him...and him to get counseling...and he and I to be happy...seperate.
This will happen by the end of April...and I hope he will truly become a better person.
The dillema is that God brought into my life a man who is the kindest, most gentle soul I could ever be blessed to know. He has helped me realize my worth as a human being and truly...for the first time...know what it means to be loved and cared about...and I think God knew what he was doing...he was giving me the push to believe in a better place..a confirmation I was ready to make a good and healthy decesion for my life.
God had us dancing within arms reach for 18 years...He was just waiting to introduce us for the right song. It played and within seconds...I knew every word.
Dawn--the timing is what it is. We will not think you are a terrible person. On the contrary, you are a wonderful, kind, giving, caring person. OF COURSE you should have someone like that to be with. You deserve happiness and love and tenderness and compassion and fun...not having crap thrown at you by a giant turd!
I so wish I could help out with your living situation! I have this wonderful little guest apartment just sitting all empty....
True enough...but what if Everything causes someone to faint or pass out or have a heart attack????
Will I be liable??
Look back on post 1357/1363 and see if you find any similarities...I have not really been hiding info...just treading the waters to see how my news would be received...but you are right...I have been feeling like I have been withholding from my family...and it has made me sad. I want to be accepted and honest...you are my family...let me know what you think....I am praying with my eyes and heart and soul to the heavens that this will be well received or at least not ripped to shreads...because God truly gave me a gift and I am ready to hold onto it.
I am a hopeless romantic too. Shhh. Don't want to betray my tough exterior!
Some day, we will all meet for real. I know it.
I wasnt sure this would be received well.
Ummmm...hello....it was BEAUTIFUL!I would LOVE to receive something so tender and loving and meaningful. (Hey, I love my guy, but a romantic...not so much!
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It's all good, Grumps! We are 100% ON BOARD! Now we have to rename this the Love Thread!(I have the music from the B52's Love Shack going on in my head...just change the words to Love Thread...
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Kat....You tough exterior is only the padding of a player...get you off the ice and you melt like the rest. Thank You for being my protector in spirit...I wish I was strong like you many times...I wish we were closer too...
Once again... totally agree on all points. Except for maybe the Love Shack theme song.![]()
Btw Erika, we are quite the night owls tonight!
3DisKids....I knew you would be the first to get it...Dan owes me $5...you read everything people write and that shows selflessness, compassion and consideration...and I hope it comes back to you 10 fold...
lol I am almost always up this late! My normal bed time is 1am (while I love the flexibility of working from home, nothing comes without a price. My price is sleep. I get to do the mom thing all day, and then when they go to bed, I go to work....). But I was really sleepy a while ago and then BOOM! What a wake up call!![]()
Hey, shouldn't I get some of that action?Yes, I do read everything everyone writes...but it is not for reasons of selflessness. It is more like selfishness. I need this thread. It is what is making the difference in my life changes. I have tried so many times on my own and failed. This time I am exceeding far beyond what I ever thought was possible, and all of you are the reason for that.
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Ok...night owl or not...I am heading off to bed!We'll gab again in the morning, I am sure!
3DisKids....I knew you would be the first to get it...Dan owes me $5...you read everything people write and that shows selflessness, compassion and consideration...and I hope it comes back to you 10 fold...
Grumps...You were right to believe they would understand...TY for showing me the good in people when I want to run...TY for knowing everything about me and loving me the same...I can only hope to be as good of heart as you...and i am so greatfull you did not close yours for good when you were hurt...TY the most for letting me into your life...it is a privalege I will always respect and appreciate and be awestruck by. You are what the Bible says a man should be...and even more...what it didn't have enough pages to say.![]()
I get in and just pull my jeans down quickly and sit...and then I realized...I JUST PULLED MY JEANS DOWN...no unbuttoning, no un-zipping...they are so loose now that I just pulled 'em down like they had an elastic waist! WOO-HOO!![]()
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So, since we tell all on this thread...Erika and I were PMing last night..."do you think it's true?" "wow, how cool would that be???" We were so excited!
And then I went to bed and missed the big reveal! I'm so bummed!
I am SO happy for you two!!! There are tears in my eyes...I am totally in your corner, rooting for love!![]()
I am an unabashed romantic, and I love to plan events...cough, cough...so if we all convene at, say, WDW to celebrate some day, count me in for attending and helping out. And I love to wear dresses other people picked out for me!But no pressure!