to you. I don't know how you keep your tongue. Does he talk to her and say "enough" or does she wait until he's not there. Geez Kelly. I am so so sorry. Sighing. So sorry. Good Lord. I'm speechless. Obviously jealousy and/or wants her son back (ie too close). I shouldn't hypothesize. Sorry. Really, I'm a tad shocked.
I am relieved to hear about husband. That's lovely Kelly. Good.
And nice that he's close to her too. That's always a good sign for treating women.
Big time
Forgive me if that's too personal.
, of emails from women who are straight that want to "meet" 
her and leave their boyfriends - husbands. She has said so many come from Southern woman. And yesterday she said so many come from her area of the country - middle America.
Not too personal - I don't do too personal I don't think!
If hes in earshot he will step in, but 9 times out of 10 she will wait till hes not there.
He is great, really wonderful, and I am lucky to have him. Its nice to know hes got my back over it and I can rely on him to step in. I don't see her as much now, I don't put myself in that situation if I can help it.
Thanks for listening Lisa, it helps to get it off my chest
Gosh Kelly - she really is a nasty woman. Black inside. I'd be so tempted to be mean back. Like "It doesn't look like you've brushed your teeth today," or "Sorry about your hair" and then she'll wonder what's wrong with it. Oh, oh, oh, wait till the wedding day. Say it then.
I LOVE it! Good for him. Good for him Kelly. And did I tell you he's cute too!!!!
And yes you did say he was cute, but I can't hear it enough!
Gosh Kelly - she really is a nasty woman. Black inside. I'd be so tempted to be mean back. Like "It doesn't look like you've brushed your teeth today," or "Sorry about your hair" and then she'll wonder what's wrong with it. Oh, oh, oh, wait till the wedding day. Say it then.
Paula. Have gone there. Over and over and over the years. 
I am having a horrible day. Went to MIL's house last night, enough said.Do you ever wish you could just scream at someone to shut up? I wouldn't of course, Im too much of a Lady for that
Hope he continues to be on the mend.
Ok, one thing at a time. Honeymoon. Well, we had a choice. My mom and dad wanted to give us our honeymoon as our wedding gift. So we had plans to go to Paradise Cay in the Bahamas (so I SCUBA dive my brains out!
Seriously. You have such an awesome set of parents.
Thanks for asking about my dad. He is doing SO well, thanks. He has minimal pain and is in great spirits. Frustrated to be away from work, especially now. As a minister, this is his "busy season," and all. And it is killing him not to be a part of things. But other than that, he is great.
what the ????How does that happen? I hope they had a dang good reason
The reason was they forgot to tell me it changed. They needed medtronic rep there for the surgery and Medtronic changed and inbetween the scheduling on their end. Ball dropped. It ended up okay though. Carsyn and I had a day and picked out flooring and new cabinets.As far as the projet...basement 99% done. This is on the upstairs. New kitchen and flooring throughout. Found awesome deals at a builders outlet!
On to something really exciting and on toopic of this thread!!
I found a book yesterday that I could not put down last night. It had some info I hope you all can relate to.
It talked about what type of eaters we were. How to distinguish ourselves so we can know what will help us and what things to do to help curb our hunger and our setbacks. Loads of great info and I will post them in the weeks ahead a bit each day.
The first part was again,
"Figuring out your weight loss personality"
#1 The ostrich
You are most like the Ostrich if you...
* Generally think, "I didn't/don't eat that much."
* Often say, "I'll start my diet tomorrow."
* Avoid the scale, believing if you don't see your weight, you won't be your weight.
#2 The baby
You are most like the baby if you...
* Don't take responsibility for what and how much you eat.
* Tell yourself, "If everyone else is eating it, I want to, too!"
* Want what you want when you want it.
* Overeat to be "polite." For example, "Aunt Lucy went to all this trouble to make my favorite homemade lasagna, so I have to have seconds."
#3 Restrained Eater
You are most like the restrained eater if you...
* Seesaw between extremes of dieting and overeating.
* Always think, I'll have just one.
* Eat like a bird in public but then find yourself binging in private.
* Frequently overeat diet foods, e.g., eating an entire box of fat -free crackers.
* Are always trying one diet or another.
#4 Slow Gainer
You are most like the slow gainer if you...
* Have poor impulse control
* Don't know why the scale keeps inching up
* Step on the scale with optimism and step back off in shock
* Bake for other people but taste and taste
* Feel victimised, because you believe you are doing everything right yet still are overweight.
#5 Weekend Eater
You are most like a weekend eater if you...
* Eat well and excersize all week but treat the weekends with abandon
* Find that your biggest splurges happen from Friday night through Sunday night.
* Can't enjoy yourself if you hav eto monitor your alcohol intake or crunch calories on your Saturday night out.
* Love to socialize and go to parties.
#6 Good/Bad Fairy
You are most like the good/bad fairy if you...
* Use food as a reward and swear off food as a punishment
* Ignore cheescake in a friends's kitchen but then cruise to your local bakery for a slice.
* Often think, " I've been so good. I never eat ice cream, so I can have some now."
* Punish yourself for overeating by starving yourself.
* Punish yourself for overeating by overeating even more, thus abandoning your weight - loss plan.
#7 Stress Eater
You are most like the stress eater if you...
* Often feel anxiety, stress or fear.
* Often zone out in front of the tv with a family size bag of chips
* Turn tyo foos before anything else, including excersize, a hot bath or a good book, to anesthetize scary feelings.
* Will reach for anything (powdered jello, peanut butter by the spoonfull) when your favorite comfort food isn't available.
I thought it was some great insight and hope some of you do as well. I think I am in several of these and I really am trying to determine which one in particular. Not all things apply in any one but I would say I am a Good/Bad fairy, Ostrich and Restrained eater.
Next up. Find your diet solutions. They list some tips to help you keep foccussed and some are more geared to the certain type of weight loss personality you have.
Have a great day all.
Liz - that was great insight. You are right some days we just are snarky based on what we know and even then not always right to say. You gave me some food for thought.
18 miles on a TM is so mentally challenging - and if you have been running outside all this time, TM would be just AWFUL. How bad is the rain supposed to be? Do you mind running in the rain? What if you started inside on the TM for 10 miles then hit the road for the final 8? Or did 5 inside, 8 outside then 5 more inside? 
really? I'm sure no one has noticed I'm mostly competitive with myself at the gym. I really don't pay too much attention to what other people are doing. Unless of course I see someone doing something fun/cool/different that I want to try!) are taken care of so I hit the gym typically 8:00ish. So anyway - my mid morning snack is my post workout smoothie. Totally yum.
. You can also get it from the VINE. If you were out working in the yard, you may have come into contact with the vine - and if you were maybe pulling weeds/twigs, etc not even known that you *found* it.
EriKa - how was the gyno appointment? Did you schedule one in 6.5years?
I am speaking from the frozen tundra to you.
But you are back in the car. That's what counts.
so jealous!"Sorry about your hair" and then she'll wonder what's wrong with it. Oh, oh, oh, wait till the wedding day. Say it then.
That's hysterical. But just look at how far you've come. Maybe you aren't "there" yet, but pulling into a rest stop is not the end of the journey. Embrace the now and let the rest of it come to you. (LisaV - is that your voice I'm hearing in my head right now 
) hope it's all straightened out now! Enjoy your aerobics tonight! 
Not a whole new kitchen - just the sink/faucet. Can't wait.
The day I get my body fat tested
So I go wait - I love spontaneity.
to use their phone and maybe check out some jeans. 
