FigmentSpark
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We're getting pressure from family to visit for a weekend so the grandparents (in their 80s) can visit with our teens (and us). They live about 5 hours away, so it will be a trip and two nights at least in a hotel. One of the family members has not been isolating, as he can't afford to be out of work (not essential, but labor work). I'm worried that they are planning this at all. It seems crazy to do it right now, even if the grands are missing us. My parents (in another province) are missing us, too, but they don't want me rushing on to a plane to visit. Furthermore, the grandparents live in assisted living situation. This will be their first outing since March. The place kept the disease at bay by locking everyone in, essentially.
Staying in a hotel (okay it in Ottawa - next door to Quebec) has me worried, too. We'd stay in a decent hotel, but is this the time to be testing their cleaning regimen? And there won't be any restaurants with sit in dining (not that we want to sit in, so it will all be take out food to eat either at the hotel or in our car. We'd get one meal with family, as well, mind you, but you get the picture. DH is NOT a "pack a lunch" kind of guy, either.
So, should we do it or not? I'm leaning to know, but it's not my family and DH is getting pressure. I worry about our health and theirs.
Staying in a hotel (okay it in Ottawa - next door to Quebec) has me worried, too. We'd stay in a decent hotel, but is this the time to be testing their cleaning regimen? And there won't be any restaurants with sit in dining (not that we want to sit in, so it will all be take out food to eat either at the hotel or in our car. We'd get one meal with family, as well, mind you, but you get the picture. DH is NOT a "pack a lunch" kind of guy, either.
So, should we do it or not? I'm leaning to know, but it's not my family and DH is getting pressure. I worry about our health and theirs.