I'm too emotional

[Lizzy Lemon]

Ashley, our 10 year old, attends a special speech and language unit because of his difficulties. Had to go to a meeting last night about him moving upto senior school and the help that needs putting in place for him. Everyone dealing with him has been great but to hear him spoken about and his difficulties with socialibility etc always has me ending up in tears in front of everyone. I know they understand the emotions involved but I don't half feel daft. The Educational Psychologist dealing with him rang me this morning to apologise for using 'technical terms' when speaking about him (way beyond my understanding) and she is meeting with me again later this week to explain a bit more. Must try to control myself a bit. I know we all have personal problems and I appreciate being able to offload cos I know at some time we all need to.

 

[Minniespal]

Sending some to you Wendy.

I am a Psychologist/Counsellor. Once you meet with the E.P. and if you need any further explanations/clarifications, please do not hesitate to pm me.

 

[fizz13]

Hi Lizzy,
Not an area I know a lot about but I just wanted to send you a million hugs and hope that the situation sorts itself out in a way you understand, very unfair that they did this to you, and glad they had the thought to apologise. Not understanding can make your fears escalate ( trust me, I know) I'm sure when explained properly, it will ease your feelings.

Don't worry about self control around here, that's what we're here for, you're welcome to offload anytime

Claire xx

 

[carolfoy]

Oh Lizzy, how emotional, I must admit I blub all the time where my ds is concerned. One day he came home from play school to say noone wanted to play with him today so he played on his own - it broke my heart!
At least he's being recognised as having a problem, it can only be good that there are people there to help him. good luck to you both

 

[Lizzy Lemon]

I'm filling up reading your support. Thank you, I need it, no-one else to turn to. DH understands less than me, in laws just call him 'slow' and both my parents are no longer with us, my sister listens but can't offer much help and my best friend listens and supports but I end up feeling patronised when she says 'you're doing a good job with him'.

 

[wideeyes]

I can understand how your feeling worried about it, its good though that support is being provided before the move.

 

[gilld]

Some of us, myself included, are more emotional than others. DD1 has severe mental health problems and I often get terribly upset talking about it, just thinking about it at times, so I know how you feel.

The professionals are used to dealing with distressed parents so don't worry too much about showing your emotions in front of them, though obviously you'd want to try and spare your son your tears.

I'm sure you are probably feeling anxious about his school move as well, which doesn't help. It sounds as though he has great support at school and hopefully he - and you - will deal fairly seamlessly with the move.

Good luck - and try not to worry.

 

[wilma-bride]

I think we all get emotional where our children are concerned. Hope everything gets sorted out and don't feel bad for getting emotional

 

[jns]

sending lots of to you

if you do not understand what they are talking about
do what I do and ask them what that means in plain english

 

[mandymouse]

I think we all get emotional where our children are concerned. Hope everything gets sorted out and don't feel bad for getting emotional

I totally agree, sending you lots of hugs

 

[lisajl]

Sending you a from Ohio.
My oldest son is 12. When he was 3 he had his own language. Due to early intervention he has come a long way. Let me tell you, every milestone he made, every time he learned something else, it made me cry.
Go ahead, cry. It's a great release. Know that other people are where you are in your life. Not everyone understands but all that matters is that we are there for our kids.

Lisa

 

[Beth__WDW23/6/02]

Huggles xxxx

 

[wils]

I hope the meeting with the Educational Psychologist goes well. There is no need to apologise to anyone for caring about your child

 

[Funniebunny]

Sending lots of hugs
I hope the meeting goes well

 

[spoiltrotten12]

I think we all get emotional where our children are concerned. Hope everything gets sorted out and don't feel bad for getting emotional

I agree.

 

[shellbell]

Sending you big hugs

 

[JohnnySharp2]

I fully understand what you mean, Joshua is Autistic and is unable to talk, he has to go to a special school and has medication for Epilepsy too (which have kept this under control for 2 years, touch wood).
It's a real roller coaster ride with kid's but as parents we know what's best for them - there are so many people out there in a similar situation, we have been at these sort of meetings in the past too and sometimes they are distressing.
Especially one where a specialist suggested Josh go for brain scans etc - which we didn't want to put him through.

The main thing is we ensure our children are happy and care for them as we all do, but it is nice you can come on here and share these things.

Often it helps to talk about your worries and afterwards it can feel a relief to get these shared with friends.

"Too emotional" - no just a caring Mother

 

[florida sun]

Lots of hugs for you

 

[KayleeUK]

for you Wendy

 

[disneyangel]

I hope all goes well at your next meeting.

I think it's hard for Healthcare professionals to remember sometimes that people are people not just another case and that we all have different levels of understanding of what they know about the conditions they are treating.

I also think it's normal to get emotional as a Mum. I'm convinced someone sticks an extra crying hormone into you the minute you give birth.

I'm sending you a big and lots of