Well, I've talked with her and cried some more. I'm ok.
It's amazing how grown up a kid is when they stop telling you how grown up they are. A year ago she would have a fit over some of the stuff I said. Tonight, she just gave me a hug and told me this is the best thing for her.
I will be a mess in the next few days, but I know now that she's doing this. She knows the risks, she's hoping for the best, and plans to get all the money and education she can get.
I am feeling better, and while I am, I think I'll try to sleep. Thank you everyone and goodnight.