You're not being selfish. You're being a wonderful mom who cares about the wellbeing and happiness of her child. For her sake and your own I hope you're able to bring her home really soon. Take care and I'll be praying for Maddy and you.
Steph I don't think you are being selfish at all. Just being a mom who wants the best for her daughter. Sending lots and lots of positive thoughts and plenty of pixie dust for you.
Will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you tomorrow that you get the result you are hoping for.
Ill echo what the others have said...you are NOT being selfish at all. you are just being a very good mother, looking out for her Daughter.
Best of luck to you tomorrow. We will all be praying for you and thinking of you.
I've followed along with your situation through the months here and I really pray for you and Maddy. HUGE prayers that the right thing is done tomorrow and you have some peace. Hugs for Maddy.