Emma, sweetie, {{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to you at this difficult time and your poor MIL. Here's loads of pixie dust for you and Matt and family.
I can't wait to give you a real big hug when I meet you in a couple of weeks.
Thank you all so much, you guys are a really great support system. I have calmed down a little now since last night, but I am still so worried about her. You see she's a big lady and op's are dangerous at the best of times but i suppose they wouldnt operate if they thought it was too much of a risk.
{{{{HUGS}}}} Emma. I'm so sorry for all you and your family are going through right now. I just wanted to let you know you came to the right place for support. The wonderful people on here really helped me recently with my worries about my Dad. See you in a few weeks. Be strong!