I'd pick a sincere person, someone genuinely trustworthy and always willing to help others unselfishly, indiscriminately. I'd pick a person who is willing to help a younger collector as much as an older one, never despising anyone because he/she could not get nice pins anyway. I'd pick someone who believes that cultivating a friendship with a beginner is as important as being friends with super traders or CMs. Someone supportive, humane and compassionate who can see beyond pieces of metals and loves the hobby for the friends he/she intends to make and keep!
Wanda,
Those are lovely thoughts. You put a lot of effort into your answer. I know that Ed aka Pauland Pinboy is new to us, but I want to say that he and his wife comb the parks 3-4 times a week looking for newbies looking to get started into pin collecting. They sped 60-70-80-90 minutes sometimes just talking to people. Answering the same questions they have answered dozens of time before . To me this qualifies as genuinely trustworthy and always willing to help other unselfishly and indisciriminately.
Ed has bought a spatula that he play "guess the flippin' pin" with little children. He paid for the aptula and he pays full rack price for all the pins. He gives the pins to the person who guesses right. He gives away 10-12 EVERY Friday night, and he does it in a resort where there is no Manager to witness his good deeds. He does not do it to get a CTT pin, he does it for the great glow he gets playing with the kids, much as John does.
Ed and Donna have cultivated more friendships with beginners that with seasoned collectors and when they have made a Cast Memeber friend, they often did not even know the individual was a CM as they were at our Friday night Pin Meet as a guest in normal street clothes as any other guest.
And as far as your last qualification ... "who can see beyond pieces of metals and loves the hobby for the friends he/she intends to make and keep! " It is not my place to share with you all what happened this past weekend, but Ed's feelings were shattered for an hour or two while the reality of what had happened sunk in to him. While he was "scooped" on a trade, and the initial stun and shock wore off, All he kept saying was. "It's really OK, I'd rather have that person as a friend (that scooped his trade) than have asilly pin.
You have no idea how "big" that made him in my book. That could have been a once in a blue moon almost trade for him that he missed out on this weekend.
John, you and Ed are the kinda guys that make this whole thing a lesson in self-evaluation. Thanks for helping us all see the fun in the hobby rather than the victory of the conquest. :kathryn respectfully bowing: