figmentswife
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Thanks everybody.
Part of the issue is that until this point we have been completely spoiled. The elementary school has been AMAZING with my child. Anything I asked for was always done without question. We just never had a problem.
So you can imagine - this has my head spinning and for many reasons I am not happy. My husband and I are also looking at this IEP and wondering what else they think they want to do away with on their own.We've just been so comfortable which is why after 10 years of doing IEP's for him I have no idea what the legalities of this are. I should be a stinking expert but we never had to fight about anything.
Also a few people have mentioned that the signing only indicated that everybody was present and does not indicate acceptance. What does indicate acceptance on the part of the school? I know there is another section in the back that I have to sign or not sign and check off for the 15 day period if I disagree etc. But if I sign (which I did) WHEN does this IEP get to the point where it is a done deal? As stated I left the meeting with the copy of the IEP with all signatures etc. After that I did not hear a word from anybody about any dispute or changes to the IEP. The IEP was conducted on April 26th, 2011 for the 2011/2012 school year. So this meeting was nearly 4 months ago.
To cover your side, you need to write letter or email ASAP stating what was put into the IEP months ago, and how you disagree with their change since that time and request another meeting ASAP. In this letter/email 3 things are very important to say and do.....1) you disagree with change b\c the TEAM made a decision, and 2) that you have contacted your local Special Education Advocacy group and may have someone attend the next meeting 3) You are requesting that an Administrator be present at the meeting.....The request for the Admin ALONE will scare them. No one likes someone to to call their boss on them when they have done something wrong.
I had to do these things (per Special Ed Advocacy group in NC) and I did pay my sons therapist to be there when a teacher asked my husband in passing one day if my son was "off his meds" - my son is NOT ON MED's.....He has a reading & writing disability so he doesn't need med.s' But this meant that she never even read his IEP.

Good Luck, and hopefully this can get resolved fast and without much trouble....but stick to your guns and they may learn to not mess with you again.