When we took our DD to Disney for her 13 birthday, I had booked Dolphins in Depth Experience for us, but our plane was late and we missed our appointment. So I called Grand Floridian and got us in for a pedi and manicure, then dinner. She loved it, but of course she really missed not being able to meet the Dolphins. I would check all the different experiences you can have at Disney and see what she would be interested in.