Barb D
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- Aug 19, 1999
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We were at the beach today. DS15 and DD13 (both very tall, strong swimmers) were fairly far out, and I went out to meet them. I at 5'7" was about chest deep. DS is 6'3" and DD is 5'11". I told them I wasn't comfortable having them out that far, so all three of us started riding the waves in. We weren't going very fast, just heading in the direction of the beach on our boogie boards and chatting. At one point I heard whistles blowing and looked around, but I saw people out farther than us so I figured the whistles weren't for us. I guess I was wrong. A few minutes later there were lifeguards in front of us, asking if we were OK. I assured them that we were fine. They told us they had whistled for us, and that we weren't supposed to be out past waist deep. (Side question: Is there a way we were supposed to know that? Is that general knowledge that I somehow missed?) Anyway, they insisted that we grab onto their flotation devices and be pulled in. At one point DS let go; he's a strong swimmer and said he was swimming faster than his lifeguard. They told him to hold on. At one point I let go, because I figured we were about waist deep, and the lifeguard snapped at me to "Just do it." (Tone of voice: "You are being an uncooperative child.")
Please be sure that I am NOT bashing the lifeguards. I know they were doing their jobs, and for all they knew we were out there struggling or intentionally ignoring them. (I was a little perturbed at being reprimanded by a teenager, but that's another story.) What I'm not clear on, though, is A: How we're supposed to know what the rules are, and B: How we're supposed to know WHO they are whistling at and what the guards want the whistlee to do. I saw many times today the lifeguards whistling and gesturing wildly, but I couldn't for the life of me tell who in the massive crowds of swimmers they were whistling at and why. Is there a trick to this? There really has to be a better way on a crowded beach for the lifeguards to communicate what needs to be done.
Please be sure that I am NOT bashing the lifeguards. I know they were doing their jobs, and for all they knew we were out there struggling or intentionally ignoring them. (I was a little perturbed at being reprimanded by a teenager, but that's another story.) What I'm not clear on, though, is A: How we're supposed to know what the rules are, and B: How we're supposed to know WHO they are whistling at and what the guards want the whistlee to do. I saw many times today the lifeguards whistling and gesturing wildly, but I couldn't for the life of me tell who in the massive crowds of swimmers they were whistling at and why. Is there a trick to this? There really has to be a better way on a crowded beach for the lifeguards to communicate what needs to be done.
