I thought this was rude!

[Xpdtion-futureWDI]

Please don't eat me, but I really like Phinny.
I asked if (in space month) they were going to give out eye pins.
She then proceeded to give me on.

So you like her because she gives you stuff?

 

[darkacre]

So you like her because she gives you stuff?

I tend to like people who do nice things for me, too, whether that is giving me stuff, answering my questions, helping me, saying nice things about me, hanging out with me. I don't think it was all that crazy for her to think Phinny is cool because Phinny gave her something. It certainly wouldn't be a reason to dislike her.

 

[Xpdtion-futureWDI]

I tend to like people who do nice things for me, too, whether that is giving me stuff, answering my questions, helping me, saying nice things about me, hanging out with me. I don't think it was all that crazy for her to think Phinny is cool because Phinny gave her something. It certainly wouldn't be a reason to dislike her.

I tend to like people who give me stuff, too, but there are other reasons than just because he/she gives me stuff.

If somebody is rude to me, but just gives me one item, I don't think I'm going to like them too much. Not dislike them, but not like them.

 

[VMK_MagicalLadee]

Thanks for insulting me.

I meant she was nice because I just asked her, and she kindly gave it to me.
Why must everyone turn everything into an argument.
I like her ok?

Good for me.

Shes never been rude or nasty to me. i see no reason to dislike her on my part.
So I like her.

Thanks Phinny! You rock!

 

[Xpdtion-futureWDI]

Thanks for insulting me.

I meant she was nice because I just asked her, and she kindly gave it to me.
Why must everyone turn everything into an argument.
I like her ok?

Good for me.

Shes never been rude or nasty to me. i see no reason to dislike her on my part.
So I like her.

Thanks Phinny! You rock!

I wasn't trying to insult you. Sorry if I did.

My last post - I wasn't talking about Phinny. I was speaking in general.

Phinny has never been rude to me either, but I don't play host games too much, so..

 

[PrincessJen09]

This was the first thing I said when I got into the room after reading the I. I didnt see any of the last game so I was really confused. She never did explain the game. I just kinda figured it out after the game started.

 

[AbsoluteAwesome]

Well, Phinny has never really been nice to me, but she's also never been rude to me. I've heard a lot of stories about her being rude to players, though.

 

[smiley76]

Well I was in the room when this happened. I'm the lone girl sitting on number two team. And wile Phinny did not explaid. I did try to explain for the benefit of others playing.

 

[Maleficent2]

Ok I think this needs to just end here.

The DIS does not allow bashing and the VMK boards does not allow popularity threads and vice versa.

Bashing Phinny here does not do anything but hurt her feelings.

Since most of us were not in the room when this happened we do not know what was said before or after and this is all really hear say and can be taken in several ways.

I do agree the Hosts in VMK should be extra careful about what they say and how they say it but not having been there I am giving her the benefit of the doubt. I also know from first hand experience that everything is not what it seems and you can never make everyone happy all the time.

I think a better course would be to use the contact us option.

In the future any threads singling out a host/ hosts like this will be closed or deleted.