Where we choose to stay depends on finances, travel party, and type of trip. Back when my daughter and 2 nieces were little, my sister and I would stay in a value (I know, 5 in a room; this was back in the day before Disney tracked/asked for ages, the youngest was really small and fit comfortably in a pack-n-play until she was almost 5), spend our days and nights at the parks, and only used the room to bathe/sleep. When DD (now almost 25) and I go together we usually still stay value, to save money (esp. when Disney has a discount and then I can stack an Orbitz discount on top of that). When DH is with us it was usually a moderate, although now that the values have a curtain/door separating the bathroom area (privacy for dressing) and queen beds, he might be convinced to stay value. HOWEVER... we have also done deluxe, for special trips or when the price is right, usually through DVC. These are very different vacations, but as we've been to Disney 25+ times, our travel attitude has changed, too. We take it easier, enjoy the resorts more (although we aren't pool people), and relax more, as we know we'll always be back, that there will always be another trip.
For the record, we've stayed at:
VALUE: POP (x3), ASMu (x2)
MODERATE: POFQ, CSR (two or three times)
DVC (deluxe): BWV, AKV, OKW
DELUXE: AKL (well... as of 8/22/18, that is!!)