Your thread sounds just like my family. My DH's family is very overweight and they always like to go out to eat. It's sad.

My husband and I have been making more home cooked meals lately. But there's always a time every week or two where we get together with his family and try to decide where to eat. It sometimes takes up to 45 minutes to decide.
Do you like to cook, or do you just not have the confidence to do it? If that's the case, find a good meal you know everyone will enjoy and MAKE IT!!! It would be fun!