I think I have my appetite back!!

[elisebutt]

Well the v.nice man I mentioned that I started seeing, took me out to a really amazing Indian restaurant tonight.
I had a Chicken Dansak - v.hot, v.spicy with tomatoes and a few lentils in, Bindi Bhaji - spicy okra, and Kumbi - spiced mushrooms and tomato. And I didn't even miss the rice! All washed down with a glass of really dry white Australian Semillion.

Didn't need a dessert, although they really were tempting.

And the best part was that he said evertime he sees me (once a week) I seem to be vanishing before his eyes.

Zach thinks it's great to see me smiling again after 6 months of 'mummy straight mouth' as he called me and told me to bring Col to Oz as we have a spare room and ticket all booked and paid for!! - to keep me smiling all the time - kids are just the greatest!!

 

[geetey]

Oh Elise, I am so happy for you!!

 

[Beanie]

I am very happy for you, Elise!! It sounds like you had a wonderful time and an excellent meal!!

 

[Muppet]

Elise

You are a top bird and deserve all the attention he can give you.

Have a great time in OZ.

 

[elisebutt]

You are a top bird

ROFLMAO - Said like a true Brit!!!!

 

[TigH]

Ooooh, I bet there were stars in your eyes and that there were little hearts fluttering around your head all night!

Great guy if he is noticing that you are disappearing before his very eyes! And your dinner sounds really yummy!!! So, are you taking him along or what? hee hee!

Glad you are smiling much more! Kids are really intuitive!

Have a great trip, Elise!

 

[elisebutt]

So, are you taking him along or what?

Tough one!!

Pros
He can get time off work at short notice.
He's a fantastic guy and not married
Gorgeous
Taller than me (for a change)
Attentive
Goooood kisser
Not shy with his wallet(always a good thing lol)
2 of his kids are girls (I always wanted girls as well)
Gives me butterflies(never really had butterflies before) in tummy
No committment phobia - always calls when he says he will and texts me at least 5 times a day.
Doesn't moan about the kids taking up most of my spare time AND is understanding about the situation at home

Cons
Only known him a short while
Going on holiday so early could nip it in the bud
Divorced with 4 kids already
Zach might not like him


Aaaaagh!!! decisions decisions - I don't know!!!!
What do I do!!

 

[Luvinit]

I say...just go with your gut on this one. Try to find that little voice inside of you and listen to it. It is a tough one. But congratualations on finding a wonderful guy.