princess jackie
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- Dec 7, 2006
First of all I have to say that I am 19 weeks pregnant. This is my 3rd child and I have a history of...not so normal pregnancies. My first, I actually had nice stomach muscles back then so she got pushed so far twords my back she crushed my kidney. I was in and out of the hospital with bad kidney infections. However, I was able to work up until the day I had her. My second, well we really don't know what was wrong with him but I spotted a lot with him and was ordered on a very early bed rest. Let me tell you, nobody wants to go through that again. Now I'm on my 3rd, I work/worked at a retirement home as a dietary aide. I work a total of 5 different types of jobs on any given night. I was having a problem with only 1 of the jobs that has a lot of bending while lifting. I would cramp really bad everytime I was on the one job. I talked to my doctor about it and she agreed that I shouldn't be scheduled on that job. She was willing to write a doctors excuse for me but I thought I would talk to my supervisors fisrt to see if they could just schedule me on the other 4 jobs that I know.
I thought everything was fine after that because almost a whole month went by without me being scheduled on that one job. One day my supervisors came up to me and said that I needed a doctors excuse. I told her that I would get one to her as soon as possible. When I talked to my doctor she wrote out the excuse to say "No exsesive bending while lifting". I turned in that excuse and didn't here anything for about another 2 weeks. All the while never once being scheduled on the job that was causing me problems.
So 2 weeks after that my supervisor aproaches me again and says that the doctors excuse was not specific enough. I asked her what she was looking for the doctors excuse to say. She said that she couldn't tell me or my doctor what to write. I was also told at this time that I needed to speak with the HR director. So I went to his office and he then told me that I was unethical to ask my supervisors not to schedule me on a certain job and that they can no longer do that because it shows favoritism. I told him that I would bring in another excuse then.
My doctor by this point is not very happy that she has had to write out 1 and now soon to be 2 doctors excuses for the same issue. She also didn't know what the retirement home was looking for so she wrote "No bending or twisting while lifting". Once again I turned in this excuse and was told to go directly to the HR director with it. When I brought it in to him he laughed at it and said that right now sitting in that chair you are in direct violation of you doctors excuse because you are bending. We got into a little spar about the wording of the excuse and I asked him directly what he was looking for. He then told me he thought I was just trying to get out of doing a specific job because I didn't like doing it. Which is not the case at all. After going back and forth with him for a long time I asked what I needed to do today. He told me to go home because there was nothing that I could do without bending or twisting. I told him that I would be back with another doctors excuse.
So here my doctor is again writing out another excuse. This time we thought a weight limit might do the trick and before we set the limit I did some research and had a friend of mine weigh some things at work. We decided that a limit of 35lbs would restrict me from doing the one specific job and not all the others. I turned it in and again everything seemed fine. Until I was told that everything was weighed at less than 35lbs so I was cleared to work all jobs. I was also told that I would have to be scheduled on that one job. I was also told that switching jobs (which happens on a daily basis) would not be allowed.
On the next schedule of course I was scheduled on that job. On Thursday I went in with a plan that I thought would work to help with some of the weight. Well all Thursday night I was awake and cramping bad. On Friday morning I started spotting. I had off the rest of the weekend and I had my ultra sound appointment on Monday. I called my doctor and was told that as long as the cramping and bleeding stopped to just take it easy until Monday.
I went to the appointment on Monday. It's a boy!! And my doctor decided to give the good old doctors excuse one last try. This time she specifically wrote. "Please do not schedule Jackie on this certain job due to cramping and bleeding during pregnancy." You can't get more specific than that. I turned it in on Tuesday and got a call on Wednesday. My supervisor called me and said that I am unable to work until my doctor clears all restrictions due to a policy that states if I can't do all of the job than I can't do any of it. I told her that I didn't have a copy of that policy and would be in in a little bit to pick up a copy. I was then transfered to the HR director who wasn't in his office. I then asked to speak to the Director of Operations. When I was put through to her I asked her for a copy of the policy and was told that I could come pick it up. I went in to pick it up and was told that technically there was no policy just a letter written to me that couldn't be located at that time.
I called back today and talked to the director of operations and she told me that the letter would be at the front desk waiting for me. I asked her about it not being a policy. She said that its just a practice that the company follows and that the letter explains all of this. I went in to pick up the letter and it doesn't say anything more than that its a practice that the company folllows in order to protect the employees.
My question is how can they all of a sudden inforce this? For over a month, when the whole issue started, I was never sheduled on that one job. And why can they say that its not okay for me to work but my friend who was pregnant awhile ago had a restriction for one specific job as well and they let her work up until the day her son was born?
I'm sorry this is so long of post I just felt that the whole story needed to be told. I'm not sure where to go from here. Any ideas, job openings, or advice is greatly appreciated.
I thought everything was fine after that because almost a whole month went by without me being scheduled on that one job. One day my supervisors came up to me and said that I needed a doctors excuse. I told her that I would get one to her as soon as possible. When I talked to my doctor she wrote out the excuse to say "No exsesive bending while lifting". I turned in that excuse and didn't here anything for about another 2 weeks. All the while never once being scheduled on the job that was causing me problems.
So 2 weeks after that my supervisor aproaches me again and says that the doctors excuse was not specific enough. I asked her what she was looking for the doctors excuse to say. She said that she couldn't tell me or my doctor what to write. I was also told at this time that I needed to speak with the HR director. So I went to his office and he then told me that I was unethical to ask my supervisors not to schedule me on a certain job and that they can no longer do that because it shows favoritism. I told him that I would bring in another excuse then.
My doctor by this point is not very happy that she has had to write out 1 and now soon to be 2 doctors excuses for the same issue. She also didn't know what the retirement home was looking for so she wrote "No bending or twisting while lifting". Once again I turned in this excuse and was told to go directly to the HR director with it. When I brought it in to him he laughed at it and said that right now sitting in that chair you are in direct violation of you doctors excuse because you are bending. We got into a little spar about the wording of the excuse and I asked him directly what he was looking for. He then told me he thought I was just trying to get out of doing a specific job because I didn't like doing it. Which is not the case at all. After going back and forth with him for a long time I asked what I needed to do today. He told me to go home because there was nothing that I could do without bending or twisting. I told him that I would be back with another doctors excuse.
So here my doctor is again writing out another excuse. This time we thought a weight limit might do the trick and before we set the limit I did some research and had a friend of mine weigh some things at work. We decided that a limit of 35lbs would restrict me from doing the one specific job and not all the others. I turned it in and again everything seemed fine. Until I was told that everything was weighed at less than 35lbs so I was cleared to work all jobs. I was also told that I would have to be scheduled on that one job. I was also told that switching jobs (which happens on a daily basis) would not be allowed.
On the next schedule of course I was scheduled on that job. On Thursday I went in with a plan that I thought would work to help with some of the weight. Well all Thursday night I was awake and cramping bad. On Friday morning I started spotting. I had off the rest of the weekend and I had my ultra sound appointment on Monday. I called my doctor and was told that as long as the cramping and bleeding stopped to just take it easy until Monday.
I went to the appointment on Monday. It's a boy!! And my doctor decided to give the good old doctors excuse one last try. This time she specifically wrote. "Please do not schedule Jackie on this certain job due to cramping and bleeding during pregnancy." You can't get more specific than that. I turned it in on Tuesday and got a call on Wednesday. My supervisor called me and said that I am unable to work until my doctor clears all restrictions due to a policy that states if I can't do all of the job than I can't do any of it. I told her that I didn't have a copy of that policy and would be in in a little bit to pick up a copy. I was then transfered to the HR director who wasn't in his office. I then asked to speak to the Director of Operations. When I was put through to her I asked her for a copy of the policy and was told that I could come pick it up. I went in to pick it up and was told that technically there was no policy just a letter written to me that couldn't be located at that time.
I called back today and talked to the director of operations and she told me that the letter would be at the front desk waiting for me. I asked her about it not being a policy. She said that its just a practice that the company follows and that the letter explains all of this. I went in to pick up the letter and it doesn't say anything more than that its a practice that the company folllows in order to protect the employees.
My question is how can they all of a sudden inforce this? For over a month, when the whole issue started, I was never sheduled on that one job. And why can they say that its not okay for me to work but my friend who was pregnant awhile ago had a restriction for one specific job as well and they let her work up until the day her son was born?
I'm sorry this is so long of post I just felt that the whole story needed to be told. I'm not sure where to go from here. Any ideas, job openings, or advice is greatly appreciated.