eclectics said:
Unfortunately when man "organized" religion he gave birth to all the infighting you are going to have when a group of men and women get together. Sadly, it goes with the territory.
Sadly, you are so right. My Dad and I were discussing this only a few days ago. I once saw a "tree" of the history of the Christian church. Obviously it went straight back to Jesus and the disciples. It was staggering to see, over the centuries how more and more denominations branched off from it, to literally thousands now around the world. How incredibly sad is that? It goes without saying Christianity as a religion would now be seen as so very diluted and full of hypocracy.
As you rightly said, this was man's doing and, I am sure, down to a control issue. I see this happening in church's today. Where someone thinks "I'll be the Leader" (notice the Disney link there - Aristocats

) and so takes his own little group of followers off to believe in something that suits them. Heck, the protestant church was born this way!! (Henry VIII and his many wives). This is human behaviour and just shows our failings. I have learnt that this is not Gods fault, he gave us free will and man chose to behave like this. I am certainly not going to miss out on a life time on earth being close to God or eternity with him in the next, just because I see man/the church behaving hypocritically.
I go to a church now that has it's failings, every organization will, but these things are quite insignificant. They have God and his word at the heart of everything, and with God in charge, the church can stay strong and remain the heart of the local community. Nothing is done religiously, down to everything like the worship, and by following God's lead the church is growing and reaching out to more and more of the community (trust me, it is a community that needs God) and helping it in practical, emotional and spiritual ways, therefore, showing the love of Christ. God is blessing us in so many ways, our worship band, are getting known globally and are having the opportunity to reach out and help more and more people than just our small community (just incase some of you reading have heard of them - Delirious?). The thriving churches in our society (in the UK anyway) are the ones that don't have some huge leadership like Bishops etc. Nope, just an eldership team made up equally of youth worker, preacher, worship leader, pastoral leader, outreach leader etc, etc (a variation on that theme anyway).
I stand firm to the belief that if the Church followed God and his heart, it would be a totaly different organisation to what is seen today. Unfortunately, the media only shows the bad, the ugly and the controversial side of the Church, not the individual lives and communities that have been radically transformed and saved all around the world. I promise there are thousands of churches all around the world (I know within a variety of denominations) that are growing in exactly the same way as mine, who, I am sure will help everyone reading this thread see a different side to Christianity, and more importantly, God.
Please, please, please don't anyone be put off a true faith with God by what you see in the media, the conflicting opinions of Bishop's, the opinions of some on these boards and any past experience with a church or known Christian. I've wasted many years blaming exactly all these things.
Sorry, just realised I've kinda written an essay here
