i really need some advice

[Dr.Pluto]

ok there is a girl at my school her name is sydney and i have loved her for 6 years but i can't build up the courage to ask her or tell her how i feel and even if i did she might laugh at me cause i and a little over weight



so plz help me

 

[::Snow_White::]

Love is a strong word.
But anyways. If you really do like her I would say tell her how you feel. She can't say anything worse than no. And if she did care about you it wouldn't matter what you look like. I'm sure you look fine! :] And if she laughs at you, she's definately not worth your time.
Good Luck! :]

 

[Dr.Pluto]

exactly love is not even remotly how i feel for her

 

[2HOT2touch]

well, are you sure you love her? or are you just deeply infatuated with her? how well do you know each other?

 

[lalastephanie]

Are you sure you love her?
I'm not sayin that you don't because my parents did that to me.
I said I was really in love and they just made fun of me and i'll never forget that.
Anyways.It doesn't matter hwat you look like.If she really loves you then she won't care but if she tells you that your a tiny bit big or something then i wouldn't date her.Shes not worth your time if shes like that.
Good Luck =]]

 

[Tinkerrat]

i once new this guy for over 4 years i loved him until one day when i was going to tell him how i felt i realized he was a mean person and that i didn't love him, know i know who he really is and i am so glad i am over him. So for you i would make sure she is a nice person who would inspire you and set a good example and will be there for you through anything

 

[xThx4Memzx]

U probly don't even love hr..its just a dum crush that we guys hav...

klove is rly hard to be in...love isnt a great thing u kno relashunships can be RUINED JUST BECUZ OF PPL Sayin their in love but their not rly...like..dunt jump in2 this relatnionship ... gf's are annoyin in mii opininnnnnnnnn

good luck w/ everytin tho!! keep us updated

 

[Skelington Spade]

Love is for losers (unless it's a guitar, then it's okay)

 

[disney100666]

just go and ask her. You sound like you are in love with her as I am with Zac.
good luck!

 

[Lil_Tink]

Just a heads up, if you DO tell her don't use the word LOVE. It can easily scare her, or atleast it did to me. My friend told me that he was in love with me and it just kinda turned me more off than on that he was IN LOVE with me, when I barely knew him. But good luck you seem like a great guy

 

[goofyandplutoluver]

Ask her..
I agree with Kayla.


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OT: It's so annoying when 5th and 6th graders say they are in love when they are "going out" with someone but not even going anywhere.

 

[3mtn-kate]

Just a heads up, if you DO tell her don't use the word LOVE. It can easily scare her, or atleast it did to me. My friend told me that he was in love with me and it just kinda turned me more off than on that he was IN LOVE with me, when I barely knew him. But good luck you seem like a great guy

i agree
but if you really care about her as much as you say you do then she deserves to know how you feel
a guy who was my best friend for the longest time once told me that he really liked me but he was too late because i was leaving the school the next day (it was the last day of school)
and i really hope he regrets waiting

 

[TinkerTracy]

Even if you don't love her, but you do have feelings for her, then you should tell her! No matter what. What's the worse thing that can happen...she says no? Ok then you work from there. How well does she know you? Maybe you should hang out or something before asking her out.
Good luck!

 

[MuNkY]

I think love is a two way thing, so I wouldn't say you love her just yet.

However, it's obvious you deeply care about her, so I say go for it. Ask her out and don't be afraid about her turning you down. There will probably be other chances at her, and even if another one doesn't come up, it's not the end of the world.

 

[AngienLuLu]

^

 

[Cali_Sparrow]

Oh man. 6 years!?
She'll be enamoured if she ever finds out you've had a crush on her for that long. But uh... don't mention that right off the bat, she might think you're a stalker (even if you aren't!).

Look at it this way, you have feelings for her and you shouldn't have to keep them bottled up. You'll really regret it if you never ask her out. Find an excuse to talk to her. Joke about a teacher you both have, or ask her what topic she chose for something. You know, small talk.
Just as a start.
And from there conversations and time spent together will grow (if all goes well) and you won't have to worry about the awkwardness of just approaching her as a date. Once you are comfortable just talking to her, ask her on a casual date. C: I know it's hard when you think that if she answers "No" then it will seriously hurt you, but you never know until you try.

I wish you the best of luck!

 

[brokenXxXsmilez]

first of all... r u guyz friendz?? if not then just talk to her like u would every1 else... get to know her a lil. if u r friendz, then start hanging out with her one on one... and if u already do that, then go for it

and heyy! if she doesnt like u b/c ur a lil overweight, then she isnt worth it!! b proud of who u r... it doesnt matter ur weight. good luck

 

[Dr.Pluto]

one of the problems is that she is a really populer girl but im on of the kinda dorkey/unpopuler kinda kids not like glasses know it all but just not the kids

 

[2HOT2touch]

but are you guys friends?