I needed a place to vent...

[WDWfan36]

Delete her from your mans myspace and have him go private. Also when out with these groups of friends be casual to her like hi how are you and good bye see you next time.

Yea I think that's a good idea

 

[Cindyluwho]

I may be an old lady now (45), but I remember clearly going through what you're talking about. There comes a time when people grow up. The sad part is that they grow up at different times and ages. When my DH and I got together is was easy for us to change our lifestyle, spend more time at home, etc. But for a small number of our friends, they just couldn't accept it. One of DH's friends in particular tried everything to break us up. It's so childish but I think they're just not ready to grow up and they're getting tired of seeing their friends grow up and move on. There will come a time when you have to look at each and every friend and decide if they're more trouble than they're worth. I know that sounds particularly harsh but in my early 30's I took a good, hard look at my friends. One friend always took but never gave - she had to go. Friends respect each other and are there for each other, even when we go on to lead different lives, become parents, etc. You and your DBF sound like mature young folks and you'll have wonderful friends, you don't need that hoo-hoo in your life.