I have a 15 year old, 10 year old and 4 year old. I am 40 and my husband is 41. We all love Chef Mickey! If your kids are fun then they will love it. I like it because all of the original characters (except for Donald are there). If you can get a room at the Contemporary I would suggest it. That was our first time in the Tower and it was amazing! The carriage ride sounds great. Ohanas is nice to, we have stayed at the Poly but never dined there. I still think Chef Mickeys is a better choice based on others opinions about Ohanas. But you need to call now, even if your not sure. You are not penalized for cancellations. I would not bother with Cinderellas castle unless your teens are very princess driven. The food is good but not worth the money to me. Also, Cinderellabration can be missed in my opinion. Your children would have loved Cinderellas surprise show, but they have replaced it with this new one and it is not good at all. I kept looking at my watch and noticed my children (who are all girls) looking around and wanting to go. Spectromagic is a must see. You get the chills and definitely the disney spirit when you see this. Try to get a seat in front of the castle. I would love to give you all kinds of ideas about getting around Disney. My friends are there right now for the 2nd time and I gave them a heads up on getting around quickly and with less time in line. Epcots Japanese res. is a must. Mama Melrose at MGM is awesome the food gets better all the way to dessert. Fantasmic! Lion King Festival! I am excited that you are all going and I dont even know you. Have fun. Dont forget to call for Chef Mickey right away.