i need Help with a friend

[PA Tigger]

My best friend treats me like trash, and yells at me. But I don't get mad at her all the time. She can play tricks on me. But if I yell at her, play a trick on her, she gets all mad at me, and then the next day she expects me to pick her up for school. The problem is i really like her if she doesn't treat me like that. then other times if she makes me look like a fool i hate her. what should I do.

 

[teh fish]

sounds like she's not really your friend.....

 

[PA Tigger]

so what should I do leave her, or keep her.

 

[MickeyMouse418]

i would talk to your friend about this first. maybe she doesn't realize that the jokes offend you as much as they offend her. I know with my friends we all take jokes differently. I get more offended than some other people, so something that offends me might be really funny to someone else. She is definitely being hypocritical about the whole trick situation. About the yelling and treating you like trash, that is definitely something you need to talk about. My friend use to treat me like trash, always getting mad at for something stupid, like the fact that she didnt like the way I chewed. She would make me get all upset and then talk to her four hours aplogizing, trying to get her forgiveness for being myself. This went on week after week, until she finally realized how stupid and immature it was. She is now one of my best friends, and we haven't fought in a really long time. Try to work it out with your friend. If she can't accept the fact that she is hurting you and doesn't want to change, then she's not really a friend and isn't worth your time. you deserve better. hope everything works out

 

[teh fish]

^agreed

You should at least talk to her. If she continues, you don't need friends like that.