Hi Dan!
I'm still overwhelmed from Friday night. I work at an ROTC college program and this was the first cadet military ball I've gone to since I started working there (since 1989). I was so very nervous but it was fun and it turned out that I was honored by the senior class and my boss. I like to take pictures of the cadets on our office couch doing different things (they took it to Sonic once and put it in one of the parking spaces and the cadets ate lunch on the couch, reenactments of a cadet proposing to their girlfriend while she was sitting on the couch, a cadet giving the couch an oil change, a cadet pretending to be fishing while sitting on the couch, etc). Well, after I realized that my boss was talking about me (before 200 people), I noticed something being carried into the ballroom - it was the couch! I got a standing ovation and one of the seniors came to my seat to escort me to the couch telling me it was now my turn to sit on the couch. I got flowers, some kisses and a shirt that reads 'house mom'. I felt like Cinderella that night.
But all I do really is my job but I love it. I overheard the secretary in our office once make the comment that she cant wait to retire so she could start enjoying her life. I felt sad for her. What if it turns out that it never happens-that retirement didnt bring her happiness? I believe if you are not happy and there is something you can do about it, please make that change. Life can be very Good.