I need advice...

[Amgrease]

Ok, I have a bit of a problem. I'm going to WDW (Poly) for my birthday and I can't decide if I should invite a friend (or friends). I know to some this doesn't seem like a problem but here's the story:

The friend that I was going to be taking with me that weekend has done something that kinda upset me. She asked me to go with <I>her</I> to Disney this past weekend. We were going to stay at WL. But then she told me that her mom wouldn't let her take a friend. I was ok with that, but then I found out that she took her another friend. So now I feel kind of betrayed. I don't want to ask her to go with me because she obviously didn't want me to go with her.

And sorry guys, there's one more part to this question. I have another friend and we used to be best friends and she got an AP so she could go with me to WDW. We had a fight at the end of last year but now we're getting to be friends again. I don't want us to get on each others nerves over the weekend and end up not being friends again but it could also be a good opportunity to become better friends again.

So, if anyone's still reading this and not too terribly confused, can you give me any advice? I'd really appreciate it! Thanks!

 

[sleepy44]

I say take the one that you think you'll have the most fun with and personally I would take the 2nd friend but if you think you'll have more fun with the other one then take her
Hope this helps

 

[nat07]

I dont know how good i am at giving advice but i would take your old best friend........It would be a good time for you to get to talk and do fun things at the same time plus you would never forget your trip together......and the other friend didn't want to take you so why should you take her

 

[AbErGrl217]

I would take the 2nd friend. After the first friend lied to you and didnt take you I wouldnt take her at all!! The 2nd friend didnt do anything bad to you, you just got in a fight with her. The trip will probably make you more closer to her also. I would defenitly chose the 2nd friend. But its your choice.

 

[WDWfanatic288]

i would say 2nd friend

the first one betrayed you and everything
and it woudl also be a good place for yall to get back to being better friends!

 

[supercarrie]

I would take the 2nd friend as well.

 

[brynna]

I think before you do anything you need to confront your friend and tell her how you feel, and then after discussing what happend if you still feel upset, it may be a good thing to ask your other friends. Fights need to be resolved and if she was your bestfriends obviously you two were close and maybe it would be good to take her, get back on track.

 

[Amgrease]

Thank you everyone for your advice! I think that I am going to take Brynna's advice and talk to my first friend about what she did. I was kind of upset when I wrote this because I'd just heard about it and my parents were pushing me to make a decision on who to take. But I think I will take the 2nd friend.