I LOVE WEDDINGS!
First, go to
www.disneyweddings.com and read there.
Second, call wedding pavilion have them mail you info. along w/ cost info. so you can "get your hands around this." 407/828-3400.
If you can, take a short trip to see the places you're thinking about, make an appointment and go because there are many options and it can help to see it first-hand. When we did they showed us a variety of places, some we liked, some we didn't, but it did show us options.
If you have an idea in your head - express them. If you don't like the person you begin working with, ask for someone else - they're all nice, but you have to be comfortable.
They have a lot of clout for locations, they'll understand your party-size and they can calso provide ticket and room discounts I haven't seen through anywhere else.
Like anywhere else you'll need to understand clearly your price range and musts vs. would be nice...
What's neat is you can make this as simple or as decorative as you want.
There are some really beautiful locations for small "ceremonies" w/ cake and violinist...
We invited 45 and 26 came. It was wonderful - we decided on a private lunch in the GF conference section, the

ctagon" room right off the Mary Poppins garden - (it looks somewhat dismantled now...), but it was beautiful then and everyone who attended still talks about the awesome food!
We had dinner at the CG overlooking the MK castle. Again awesome food.
We were recently at Narcoose's for dinner (night though), food was very good, seems to be a "hot" place for small wedding receptions - and just think if you time it right, you can watch the MK fireworks from their balcony and the water pageant - which I call built-in entertainment. And the potential for great pictures!!!
This sounds like you're planning a destination wedding, is it?
CONGRATS AND GOOD LUCK - FEEL FREE TO ASK MORE QUESTIONS.