As another poster said, my real dad was nothing but a loser. I was fortunate enough to get a great step dad though and to me, he is the one that deserves the title of being called, Dad!! Here are the lyrics to a song that remind me of him.
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He Didn't Have To Be: Brad Paisley.
When a single mom goes out on a date with somebody new,
It always winds up feeling more like a job interview.
An' my momma used to wonder if she'd ever meet someone,
Who wouldn't find out about me and then turn around and run.
I met the man I call my dad when I was five years old.
He took my mom out to a movie and for once, I got to go.
A few months later I remember lying there in bed,
I overheard him pop the question, and I prayed that she'd say: "Yes."
And then, all of a sudden,
Oh, it seemed so strange to me,
How we went from something's missing to a family.
Lookin' back, all I can say,
About all the things he did for me,
Is I hope I'm at least half the dad,
That he didn't have to be.
I met the girl that's now my wife about three years ago,
We had the perfect marriage but we wanted somethin' more.
Now, here I stand surrounded by our family and friends,
Crowded 'round the nursery window as they bring the baby in.
And now, all of a sudden,
It seems so strange to me,
How we've gone from something's missing to a family.
Lookin' through the glass,
I think about the man that's standin' next to me.
And I hope I'm at least half the dad,
That he didn't have to be.
Lookin' back all I can say,
About all the things he did for me,
Is I hope I'm at least half the dad,
That he didn't have to be.
Because he didn't have to be.
You know, he didn't have to be. </B>
He's gone now too and I hope he and my Mom are having a grand time together in Heaven. I miss them both so much!