I just want to crawl in a hole.

[Chrissi Pooh]

I am so sorry for your loss. I experienced a miscarriage about 6 and a half years ago and it was heart breaking. I know how you feel but like alot of people said here you still have your family and your health.

By the way I will also tell you to not give up hope, I have a beautiful soon to be 5 year old little girl.....miracles do happen!!!

 

[mickeyboat]

Tamie, I am so sorry. You have suffered an incredible loss and you have the right to grieve. Have a hissy fit if you want.

I want to reiterate what the other posters have said. Have the doctor check your progesterone levels, I had trouble too.

There is life after miscarriage, after a miscarriage and an ectopic pregnancy, we now have two beautiful DD's.

Denae

 

[floridafam]

Again, I'm sorry.

When the time is right and you talk to a doctor have him/her check your thyroid levels, too.

 

[momof2inPA]

Tamie, it's ok to feel sad and grieve a little. It's hard to put all those hopes and dreams on the back burner and try again. But when you are ready to try again, I have faith things will work out beautifully.

 

[Patabel]

Oh, Tamie, I am so, so sorry for you and Joe. What an incredible loss.

You will be in my prayers.

Pat

 

[luvindisneyworld]

I am so sorry for the loss.

I too have had 2 miscarriages and then thought i was doing great and had carried my 3rd till i was 5 1/2 months and then we lost her too.

It is a very hard thing to go through,I know.

Misty

 

[Fishbone†]

Tamie:

I wish there was something I could say that would take away the pain....

I agree......... throw a hissy fit, kick and scream, and if nothing else, cry until you can't cry any longer (it's what I would do ).

It's not fair because I KNOW without a doubt that you deserve a beautiful baby, and that you and Joe will be perfect parents. It will happen for you..........when it's right it'll happen. I don't understand why you have to go through all the pain first, but I hope someday you'll know, and you'll look back on it and see the blessing in what now seems like a curse.

I'm praying for you. I know you're not ready to talk about it, but when and if you are, you know where I am.

{{{{HUGS}}}}

Love ya!

 

[catsrule]

Sorry Tamie.

 

[tc]

Tamie, I am so sorry for your loss. Please don't apologize for you feelings. Maybe others are going through worse, but that does not minimize the loss you have suffered. Prayers and pd are being sent from out west. I will continue to pray for healing and a future bundle of joy.

 

[Desnik]

I am so sorry. I know how you feel, I also had a miscarriage. You know what, throw a hissy fit, it helps!! I remember crying uncontrollably on the floor in a ball. I was so hurt, angry and very sad. You never completely get over it or forget. It does get easier to deal with as time passes. I had the miscarriage when DD was 4yo. I now have a beautiful baby boy who will be 1yo soon. Here's a web site that helped me find info. and "talk" to others who have been there:
http://www.pregnancyloss.info/miscdisc/miscdisc_toc.htm

I have a friend who has had 3 miscarriages and has 5 healthy children!! Don't loose hope.

 

[Alice28]

I'm really sorry Tamie- I know this is so difficult for you and DH. We're here for ya..

 

[Minnesota!]

Oh DAMN, Tamie. I am so sorry sweets. Huge, monster smothering hugs to you and Joe.

I am going to send you a PM.

 

[Dan Murphy]

We talked in PM.

 

[POLLY ANN]

Tamie, I'm so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Joe.

Expect an email from me soon.

 

[CRB#33]

Vent away I'm so sorry.

You are certainly in my prayers.

 

[TINKTWINS]

Ive got tears streaming down my face, Im feeling so sorry for you. Its a very lousy thing and unfortunalty most of us do go through it at least once. It does stink. But think posative, pray and keep trying, you know the old saying, good things come to those who wait!!

Im sending a big hug, some PD and a prayer your way, chin up cutie pie!!

 

[Jenn Lynn]

Tamie-I am so sorry.

I sent you a PM.

 

[dizneenut]

I am so sorry.

 

[lstokes]

I am so sorry for your loss. I believe losing a child is one of lifes hardest things to go through.
Get some support through a local group. Many hospitals/ Birthing Centers have such groups for parents who lost children through miscarriage.

 

[paras4ri]

I'm so sorry Tamie.