I just saw the epitome of self-centered

[java]

I am so very sorry for your loss. And Loss doesn't even seem like a big enough word for it. You will be in my thoughts.

 

[Teacher03]

I'm sorry for your loss

 

[Tamarap]

I am so very sorry for your loss.

The only possible scenario I can fathom is that this woman didn't know what to say and that's what she came up with. I think that people feel the need to say something and think that something is better than nothing when in some cases, such as this one, the opposite is true.

 

[becpee]

So sorry to hear of your loss, it must be so hard for you.

As for your friend, better not to say anything at all about her.......

 

[minniecarousel]

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

I don't know what to think about that "friend". It would probably be very difficult to remain her friend after that, though.

 

[Perkins5]

I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot even imagine what you are going through. Hugs to you and your family.

 

[alizesmom]

I am so sorry for your loss. Is it the boy on the bean bag in your sig photo?

Yes, my adorable little guy.

 

[ols386]

No, I dont think you are being insensitive at all. The friend is the one who was being extremely insensitive.

I am very sorry for your loss.

 

[Eeyore'sthebest]

I'm very sorry for your loss.

 

[keenercam]

I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my prayers today.

 

[Handbag Lady]

I am so sorry your and your family are going through this right now.

I can't explain what your friend said, but yes, it really wasn't the place nor the time.

 

[sparkyboy]

you are in my prayers. Sometimes, people don't know what to say and just need to be a good listener instead of randomly talking about anything except you and your loss. I don't know your friend, but perhaps she falls into the category of not knowing what to say and express her feelings of sympathy to you.

 

[3jsmommy]

Oh my..I'm so sorry that your beautiful little boy passed!
Prayers for you & your family.

The woman that did that to you is clueless, it's sad for her...that she can't think beyond herself.

 

[Eeyores Butterfly]

I can't imagine how that must have felt to have her say that to you at the funeral if your son. This goes beyond "wacky". You have every right to be upset.

Alize was very lucky to have such a caring mother in his life. Thoughts and prayers with your family.

 

[koima]

I'm so sorry to hear about your unfathomable loss. You're in my thoughts.

And your friend was out of line.

 

[HelenePA]

I am sorry for your loss

 

[C.Ann]

I am so terribly, terribly sorry for your loss..

 

[Stitchfans]

Uhh, no, you are not being insensitive. You are getting ready to lay YOUR son to rest, "self-centered" is putting it mildly. There is a place and time for every discussion, this wasn't the place or time for that one.

Sorry about your loss. I can't, nor do I want to even imagine it.

My thoughts exactly.

As said, I am very sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you are going through!

 

[61292cna]

I'm sorry to hear of your devastating loss!!! It is so you "friend" just doesn't get it. My family will keep you in our thoughts & prayers!

 

[NY Disney fan]

I'm so so sorry over your loss.