FergieTCat
I am serious. And don't call me Shirley.
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You seem like a perfectly nice person, but everyone else, not so much! 



You seem like a perfectly nice person, but everyone else, not so much!![]()


You seem like a perfectly nice person, but everyone else, not so much!![]()


Eat some chocolate. You can't hate anyone or anything when you're eating chocolate.![]()
Everyone has their bad days where nothing goes right and you think the world is against you.
Even when that happens - think of that pixie dust and let it sprinkle down on you. Think of a happy time, take a few moments and breathe deeply.
Remember the other person that you are talking to just might be having a day themselves. When people come across that negative I turn that into positive.
It's not easy but if you try, you'll feel better too!
Quick Story...
Last week a gentleman came in and was looking to purchase an airline ticket. He was very rude and inconsiderate and didn't want to give me his correct information. He wouldn't spell anything for me ( I wanted to make sure that I had all of the names correct )
My other co workers kept emailing me and said tell him to leave you don't want his business. I kept smiling and I got the sale, after he left I said to them yes he was very rude but you know what I made the sale because I killed him with kindness. Just because he is a rude person doesn't mean that I should not assist him, I made the sale!

Then I start to walk away and she tells me that I am a B**** and should not have kids.
The dairy employee and I looked at each other and wondered who does she thinks shop mid day during the week.
I give up! What 2 year old doesn't have a meltdown?