I had a truly terrifying experience-THE TRUTH Pg19

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I'm willing to bet, that there are some really good searchers here on Dis that can and will track her location down and forward all this nice post to DFS or CPS whichever the case maybe

They shouldn't waste their time or DFS or CPS's time. This is all bull.
 
Ok, I have seen 'lack' of personal responsibility before...but wow.

Kelly
 
In several of her posts - here and elsewhere - she's basically said she's afraid she's "damaged goods" because of her kids, and that no man will want her because of them. She also implied she was tricked into having them in order to get their father to stay with her. I am hoping she is just someone who has learned what buttons to push to rile people up and get attention, because if there's even a grain of truth in her posts then I truly fear for the safety of those kids.

Yeah but then sometimes she's a man who is desperately in love with a single mother of two disabled children and s(he) is worried that s(he's) too unattractive to ever be hooked up with such a goddess.

Sometimes she is apparently quite wealthy and can afford vacations out the wazoo, other times she can't even afford vegetables and must buy her overweight daughter more brownies and chips because they are cheaper.

This is a busy, busy life we are dealing with. Who has time for a job when you have all this going on.
 

Ok, the nice side of me would like to suggest, stop trying to get a husband. You seem to have time and money on your hands. Take some classes, get out of the house get on with life and take care of yourself and kids. If you need meds to do this, then take them. Just do it.

"A better life will come your way the second you get up and start walking toward it." ~Jason Gracia~​

Now the skeptical side of me....has anyone seen the 2010 movie "Catfish" :rolleyes1
 
This thread is serving absolutely no purpose . You all are passive aggressive with your "Get some help" as if I belong in a straight jacket .

That's how you are presenting yourself - on EVERY thread.. Don't try to play the "victim" card on this because it's not going to work..

You are really reaching with your assumptions . I beat the snot out of him to see him cry. Ok that's correct. I wont deny that but that was SO long ago. That happened before I was even pregnant with my kids..like 7 years ago .

Bull..

In several of her posts - here and elsewhere - she's basically said she's afraid she's "damaged goods" because of her kids, and that no man will want her because of them. She also implied she was tricked into having them in order to get their father to stay with her. I am hoping she is just someone who has learned what buttons to push to rile people up and get attention, because if there's even a grain of truth in her posts then I truly fear for the safety of those kids.

Well what happened to the BOYFRIEND she had just 34 days ago?? :confused3 Maybe she beat him up too - "just to see him cry"..

OP: Where is that boyfriend now?

Calling bull again..


What the heck is CPS gonna do ? Open my mouth and force me to take my meds?! :lmao:

Place your children in foster care - place you in an inpatient program - and YES, they will FORCE the meds down your throat..
 
I am sorry that happened to you. However, I don't think you have any room to be mad at them for taking your kids to the precinct or at the police....I'm sure they've heard similar things from mothers who are drug addicts or alcholics and they needed to make sure you were telling the truth. I do feel bad for both you and the children, however.
 
You are really reaching with your assumptions . I beat the snot out of him to see him cry. Ok that's correct. I wont deny that but that was SO long ago. That happened before I was even pregnant with my kids..like 7 years ago .
Isn't your older child eight?
 
This thread is serving absolutely no purpose . You all are passive aggressive with your "Get some help" as if I belong in a straight jacket .

ummmm...your kids ended up at a police station cause you were 5 hours late picking them up at their school bus....if that doesn't say you have some sort of problem you need help with then I don't know what else it would take.

What the heck is CPS gonna do ? Open my mouth and force me to take my meds?! :lmao:

They don't have to force you to take any meds...they DO need to make sure that your kids get proper care, nutrition and supervision which I don't think missing 20 phone calls, being 5 hours late and having them end up in a police station is considered. They WILL take your kids out of your home, put them into the foster care system, allow you minimal supervised contact (if any) and could potentially sever your parental rights and allow them to be adopted.
 
My family lives 2 hours away . I have them down as emergency contacts but they arent local . They want emergency contacts who atleast lives in the same state. Im really bothered by the fact that besides thier father I have no other support . He isn't even around. We havent seen him in a year. My family wants me to move back to our hometown so ill have support and help raising the kids but for right now Im staying put where I am. If I lived back in my hometown there is no way my kids would've gone to a police station . I'd have atleast 10 local contacts.

Why are you staying put for now? It seems like you have no ties to the area (no job). If your family is supportive and functional (although didn't you say your mom was actually there the day you overslept?) they are worth 10 of your ex as far as giving your kids some consistency. You could use the support of family. Move.
 
I do feel bad for both you and the children, however.

Don't feel bad for her - AT ALL.. Find her locked thread from yesterday - unless it went "poof"..

Be very, very, VERY concerned for her children..
:sad1:
 
Exactly.. I swear - if I knew how to track this person down I would call CPS in a heartbeat.. There is no possible way that she could have been that physically abusive to her children's dad ("to see him cry") and NOT do the same to her children..:mad:

I am in NO way in support of the troll at all but I'm having a hard time reading how you are upset that she won't answer the questions you want. Why is it ok for you to pick and choose which questions you will answer but not someone else?

Again I am not in support of the troll.
 
Ok..the fun is over. Here is the truth about what i've posted . I want to be honest about everything.


The truth is this "terrifying situation" NEVER happened. Im a drama queen. I was sitting back thinking hmmm what If I took a nap and totally missed the bus for like hours on end...scary thoughts. The drama queen in me decided to make a post about it . The first couple pages of responses were pretty boring so I quickly forgot about it until it was bought up in another post...than I saw the drama unfolding and tried to cover up my tracks.

There was no doctor's visit or tests. No surprise there.

I tried to cover up my tracks by revealing that I was diagnosed with extreme depression. This is true ..but I was diagnosed with depression months ago. I was prescribed the two medications for roughly 4 months . I never took the meds but I did attend the therapy sessions weekly until my school schedule conflicted with the meetings and I stopped going altogether.

I finished school last year. I do SAHM but I took classes at a community college to have something to focus on. I completed my degree and I've done nothing since. It did not help my depression at all ...(maybe because I wasn't taking the meds)

I DID abuse my ex/kids father but that was seven years ago . I've apologized to him a long time ago and he's forgiven me. I haven't hit him or any other boyfriend since .

I honestly know why he is not involved in our kids lives. He didn't just walk out for no reason. Last summer I was more interested in getting him back than facilitating a relationship with the kids. If I didn't meddle in his new relationship and fly off the handle for stupid reasons he'd still be in their lives. I gave him hell for everything last summer. I even drunk dialed him and told him I loved him several times and I admit it was absolutely pathetic behavior. I cringe when I think about all the times he had the kids over night and I was drunk dialing him for attention . It was abundantly clear that he had /has absolutely no feelings toward me anymore and I couldn't handle it.

My therapist felt I should move on and see other guys. I decided to go on a dating website. I decided ok Ill make a profile on a dating website. I had a few one nighters with random men and this one guy was head over heels for me. I still have no clue why but he was . He had a gf at the time who was in love with him. I knew about her. I had no intention on being with him because he was not really my type..I thought he was attractive some days..and ugly on others..so I needed other ppl's opinion . In the end..I just was not attracted to him . I feel a little bad for breaking his heart but those are the breaks . Im not attracted to nice guys. If a guy is too nice to me it's a turn off .

That's the complete and honest truth.



That's the truth.
 
Why are you staying put for now? It seems like you have no ties to the area (no job). If your family is supportive and functional (although didn't you say your mom was actually there the day you overslept?) they are worth 10 of your ex as far as giving your kids some consistency. You could use the support of family. Move.

I don't believe she has no family close by.. In her locked thread yesterday her mom was at her house - while she was sleeping again - and that's why she let her DD answer the phone, speak to the dad, and then shoved the phone back at her DD when the dad wanted to speak to her directly..
 
Ok..the fun is over. Here is the truth about what i've posted . I want to be honest about everything.


The truth is this "terrifying situation" NEVER happened. Im a drama queen. I was sitting back thinking hmmm what If I took a nap and totally missed the bus for like hours on end...scary thoughts. The drama queen in me decided to make a post about it . The first couple pages of responses were pretty boring so I quickly forgot about it until it was bought up in another post...than I saw the drama unfolding and tried to cover up my tracks.

There was no doctor's visit or tests. No surprise there.

I tried to cover up my tracks by revealing that I was diagnosed with extreme depression. This is true ..but I was diagnosed with depression months ago. I was prescribed the two medications for roughly 4 months . I never took the meds but I did attend the therapy sessions weekly until my school schedule conflicted with the meetings and I stopped going altogether.

I finished school last year. I do SAHM but I took classes at a community college to have something to focus on. I completed my degree and I've done nothing since. It did not help my depression at all ...(maybe because I wasn't taking the meds)

I DID abuse my ex/kids father but that was seven years ago . I've apologized to him a long time ago and he's forgiven me. I haven't hit him or any other boyfriend since .

I honestly know why he is not involved in our kids lives. He didn't just walk out for no reason. Last summer I was more interested in getting him back than facilitating a relationship with the kids. If I didn't meddle in his new relationship and fly off the handle for stupid reasons he'd still be in their lives. I gave him hell for everything last summer. I even drunk dialed him and told him I loved him several times and I admit it was absolutely pathetic behavior. I cringe when I think about all the times he had the kids over night and I was drunk dialing him for attention . It was abundantly clear that he had /has absolutely no feelings toward me anymore and I couldn't handle it.

My therapist felt I should move on and see other guys. I decided to go on a dating website. I decided ok Ill make a profile on a dating website. I had a few one nighters with random men and this one guy was head over heels for me. I still have no clue why but he was . He had a gf at the time who was in love with him. I knew about her. I had no intention on being with him because he was not really my type..I thought he was attractive some days..and ugly on others..so I needed other ppl's opinion . In the end..I just was not attracted to him . I feel a little bad for breaking his heart but those are the breaks . Im not attracted to nice guys. If a guy is too nice to me it's a turn off .

That's the complete and honest truth.




That's the truth.

It must be the truth because you would never lie, right?
 
Ok..the fun is over. Here is the truth about what i've posted . I want to be honest about everything.


The truth is this "terrifying situation" NEVER happened. Im a drama queen. I was sitting back thinking hmmm what If I took a nap and totally missed the bus for like hours on end...scary thoughts. The drama queen in me decided to make a post about it . The first couple pages of responses were pretty boring so I quickly forgot about it until it was bought up in another post...than I saw the drama unfolding and tried to cover up my tracks.

There was no doctor's visit or tests. No surprise there.

I tried to cover up my tracks by revealing that I was diagnosed with extreme depression. This is true ..but I was diagnosed with depression months ago. I was prescribed the two medications for roughly 4 months . I never took the meds but I did attend the therapy sessions weekly until my school schedule conflicted with the meetings and I stopped going altogether.

I finished school last year. I do SAHM but I took classes at a community college to have something to focus on. I completed my degree and I've done nothing since. It did not help my depression at all ...(maybe because I wasn't taking the meds)

I DID abuse my ex/kids father but that was seven years ago . I've apologized to him a long time ago and he's forgiven me. I haven't hit him or any other boyfriend since .

I honestly know why he is not involved in our kids lives. He didn't just walk out for no reason. Last summer I was more interested in getting him back than facilitating a relationship with the kids. If I didn't meddle in his new relationship and fly off the handle for stupid reasons he'd still be in their lives. I gave him hell for everything last summer. I even drunk dialed him and told him I loved him several times and I admit it was absolutely pathetic behavior. I cringe when I think about all the times he had the kids over night and I was drunk dialing him for attention . It was abundantly clear that he had /has absolutely no feelings toward me anymore and I couldn't handle it.

My therapist felt I should move on and see other guys. I decided to go on a dating website. I decided ok Ill make a profile on a dating website. I had a few one nighters with random men and this one guy was head over heels for me. I still have no clue why but he was . He had a gf at the time who was in love with him. I knew about her. I had no intention on being with him because he was not really my type..I thought he was attractive some days..and ugly on others..so I needed other ppl's opinion . In the end..I just was not attracted to him . I feel a little bad for breaking his heart but those are the breaks . Im not attracted to nice guys. If a guy is too nice to me it's a turn off .

That's the complete and honest truth.



That's the truth.

I'm not sure if you know what the truth really is...or is this a way to keep the drama alive now in yet another direction.
 
Now the skeptical side of me....has anyone seen the 2010 movie "Catfish" :rolleyes1

I did. All I can say is wow. I had no idea someone could do such a good job of pretending to be so many people. I think it is sad that a person's life feels like imprisonment to the point they have to live in such a fantasy world. They surely are good at fooling others though. I showed it to my son and he could not believe his eyes. I tell him to beware of catfish. I was shocked that she could have come up with more lies so quickly. Like the comment on her hair and suddenly she had cancer and was going to lose the hair due to treatments. The story on the daughter in treatment changed quickly too.
 
Ok..the fun is over. Here is the truth about what i've posted . I want to be honest about everything.


The truth is this "terrifying situation" NEVER happened. Im a drama queen. I was sitting back thinking hmmm what If I took a nap and totally missed the bus for like hours on end...scary thoughts. The drama queen in me decided to make a post about it . The first couple pages of responses were pretty boring so I quickly forgot about it until it was bought up in another post...than I saw the drama unfolding and tried to cover up my tracks.

There was no doctor's visit or tests. No surprise there.

I tried to cover up my tracks by revealing that I was diagnosed with extreme depression. This is true ..but I was diagnosed with depression months ago. I was prescribed the two medications for roughly 4 months . I never took the meds but I did attend the therapy sessions weekly until my school schedule conflicted with the meetings and I stopped going altogether.

I finished school last year. I do SAHM but I took classes at a community college to have something to focus on. I completed my degree and I've done nothing since. It did not help my depression at all ...(maybe because I wasn't taking the meds)

I DID abuse my ex/kids father but that was seven years ago . I've apologized to him a long time ago and he's forgiven me. I haven't hit him or any other boyfriend since .

I honestly know why he is not involved in our kids lives. He didn't just walk out for no reason. Last summer I was more interested in getting him back than facilitating a relationship with the kids. If I didn't meddle in his new relationship and fly off the handle for stupid reasons he'd still be in their lives. I gave him hell for everything last summer. I even drunk dialed him and told him I loved him several times and I admit it was absolutely pathetic behavior. I cringe when I think about all the times he had the kids over night and I was drunk dialing him for attention . It was abundantly clear that he had /has absolutely no feelings toward me anymore and I couldn't handle it.

My therapist felt I should move on and see other guys. I decided to go on a dating website. I decided ok Ill make a profile on a dating website. I had a few one nighters with random men and this one guy was head over heels for me. I still have no clue why but he was . He had a gf at the time who was in love with him. I knew about her. I had no intention on being with him because he was not really my type..I thought he was attractive some days..and ugly on others..so I needed other ppl's opinion . In the end..I just was not attracted to him . I feel a little bad for breaking his heart but those are the breaks . Im not attracted to nice guys. If a guy is too nice to me it's a turn off .

That's the complete and honest truth.



That's the truth.

Oy vey. You need some professional help. I suggest you seek that out ASAP, for real this time. :sad2:
 
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