I had a truly terrifying experience-THE TRUTH Pg19

[happygirl]

Lol ..nothing like that! My bosses were an asian couple . I just got paid under the table. I did everything . I worked the cash register, stocked the salad bar,light cleaning duties ...a little bit of everything. It was a fun job .I loved my coworkers.

Try to go back there.

 

[HersheyKisses]

I started reading this yesterday while at work and continued today.

I'm not sure why I'm even posting at this point, because that just bumps her stupid thread back up, but this is what I found.

http://www.disboards.com/archive/index.php/t-2719695.html

This is a thread to her TR to WDW in May of 2011. If you read a bit of it you will see she has posted some pictures. The Photobucket username for those pictures is Sweetpeaches99.
Ok so we know for sure that OP is in fact Sweetpeaches99 in Photobucket.

Now by googling Sweetpeaches99 I found this other thread.

http://parenting.allwomenstalk.com/my-5-year-old-daughter-is-very-overweight-help/

In this thread she talks about her overweight child and how her child is autistic. AND she posts a picture of her daughter with the same exact Sweetpeaches99 account.
In the thread she also claims that she can't buy healthy food for her kids because she can't afford it.

Then she procedes to say that her children are perfectly fine, she's not on assistance and she can afford going to WDW and planning a cruise...

I find it hilarious that she wouldn't think people could find out this information!!

OP you may be depressed, but let me tell you, you have some serious mental issues and you need to get help! REAL HELP!
I feel sorry for your kids! And if any little bit of what you post is true, then CPD should really look into your case!!

Call me a stalker, I don't care. You put information for everyone out there to see, you're no victim, your kids are the true victims. No wonder you have no friends, take a real good look in the mirror and go talk to a professional.

I did NOT post that ^^^ If I did i'd have no problem admitting it.

 

[HersheyKisses]

Try to go back there.

I can't because I moved .

 

[msjprincess]

I did NOT post that ^^^ If I did i'd have no problem admitting it.

So someone hacked into your photobucket account?

 

[focusondisney]

Very few. You're probably reading too many trashy novels or watching too many soap operas. Real life isn't like that.

What Kay said. Most suburban housewives are too busy with their jobs & trying to deal with their lives to participate in "sordid activities". Try a job. It'll keep you busy too. Unfortunately, having a job & having to pay your own way will cut into your Disney vacations. But at least then, you'll be just like the suburban housewives you think you know so well.

 

[HersheyKisses]

Find something else to pass the time. I don't know what you do to get your money (you claim to not work, not get child support and not get public asssitance, so the mystery remains) but I can't imagine a job could hurt the situation. Get a job-part time if you have to, volunteer at your kids school, soup kitchen, food panty, senior center, services for the blind, meals wheels...the need is there. Organizations take volunteers for as few or as many hours they can give.

Sitting in you house watching tv and taking naps doesn't give you something to look forward to or make the time pass any more quickly. If you can motivate yourself enough to plan vacations constantly then you can motivate yourself enough to do a part time job, volunteer etc.

I have dealt with people with depression: my best friend is a manic depressive who has spent more time in a mental hospital then out over the past 10 years and the one thing the doctors and therapists always tell her is that she needs to wake up at a set time each day, take a shower and get out of her house. Depresssion is a disease, but your behaviors combined with medications help to manage it. A CLINICALLY depressed person can't shut the depression off for a week in Disney world and then turn it back on when they get home. My friend couldn't even make it to her own daughter's sweet 16 party she was in such bad shape. If you are able to get your kids off to school, plan cruises and vacations then you should be able to get out your door and find some meaningful activity to fulfill your life..not planning vacations.

Very good advice.

 

[C.Ann]

Updddddaaaateeeeee ...This morning my kids father contacted me on facebook and said he wants to see the kids and talk to me today . I told him im not available today and im not comfortable seeing him . I dont know why all of a sudden he wants to visit his kids. I guess I laid a big enough guilt trip on him but I realize that I dont want to guilt him into seeing his kids .

Make up your mind! Yesterday you were whining because he WASN'T in their lives..

Ok and lets not forget ppl....Im the victim in all of this. NOT HIM .

YOU are NOT the "victim".. Your children are.. No wonder he walked out..

I dont do drugs.

No - you certainly don't.. Not even the antidepressants you supposedly were prescribed.. You don't want medication that needs to build up in your system before it works - you want "happy" pills that work the second you swallow them.. Guess what? A psychiatrist is NOT going to give them to you - so you better take the ones you say you have.. IF you want to get better - which I highly doubt..


Also I wish you all would stop talking about my kids. My kids are FINE. They are healthy and happy kids. I dont expose them to my drama with thier dad . If you guys called CPS on me I honestly would not care because my kids are not being abused or neglected . They are clean ,fed,dress VERY well , go to school everyday and have a TON of toys . I recently put my dd in dance classes when she expressed an interest in wanting to be a ballerina . I may be just "going through the motions" because Im depressed but Im not a mental case. I know right from wrong . I know not to ever take my frustration with my life out on my kids. If they were being neglected thier schools would not hesitate to call the authorities. Im actually pretty close to my son's teacher and she knows Im depressed. It's not my fault that Im depressed . I cant control that.

Your kids are NOT fine.. They ended up in the POLICE STATION due to your negligence!! They have seen you physically abuse their father - viciously.. Eventually your anger is going to spill over onto those children (I pray to God it doesn't happen - or hasn't already) - but do you care? No.. Otherwise you would get some serious help.. REAL healp..

Whoa! You were abusive to your husband and you don't think that has any bearing on what is happening now? Really?

Did it ever occur to you that he stays away BECAUSE of the kids? That maybe he knows that their seeing you beating him isn't the best thing for them? I mean its not the way I would think and I would take my kids from you in a heartbeat, but he may see it different.

It doesn't justify his being an absent parent, but nothing justifies abuse either. Not even "it was long ago".

You are not a victim. And if you were abusive to a spouse you need to really get some help to make sure this abuse doesn't come out on your kids.

I agree - and I bolded my biggest fear - the only reason I'm still on this thread.. I am terrified for those kids!!

Yes my ex pays child support. He's never missed a payment.

On one of your other threads you stated it was $100 a week - total.. How do you live on that; take care of your children properly; AND have "plenty of money to go to Disney "several times a year" (your own words - not mine)?

Welcome to the dark side, you stalker you.

I am NOT proud of what I did - and I pray I never, ever have to do it again.. That's not me - that's not how I roll..

and I worked under the table at a sandwhich shop in my off hours .I made good money at the time .

Now you're adding on an illegal job and tax evasion.. Nice..

True, the depression isn't your fault - but not taking the medication that will help you feel better IS 100% your fault.

She obviously wants a "quick fix" (happy pills) - or she's not interested in helping herself to overcome this "depression"..

 

[Buckalew11]

Lol ..nothing like that! My bosses were an asian couple . I just got paid under the table. I did everything . I worked the cash register, stocked the salad bar,light cleaning duties ...a little bit of everything. It was a fun job .I loved my coworkers.

BTW, I love how you skip the tough questions and go for the easy ones. Same way you skip the advice and dwell on being the victim in all this.

Have a fun time stuck in your miserable rut, wallowing in your self-pity and living life looking in the rearview mirror.

 

[HersheyKisses]

I would assume too that he has legal rights to see his children. You cannot prevent him from doing so.

He doesn't want to see his kids. He only wants to see them because I guilted him into it. If he wanted to see them on a consistent basis I would welcome it but I see no good in a one time visit. I need consistency.

 

[cabanafrau]

I know everything I need to know about this thread from the title.

Correction:

My kids had the most terrifying experience!

 

[happygirl]

He doesn't want to see his kids. He only wants to see them because I guilted him into it. If he wanted to see them on a consistent basis I would welcome it but I see no good in a one time visit. I need consistency.

like I asked in a previous post. Why don't you try to work through his family. He might be willing to deal with them?

 

[ChrizJen]

I started reading this yesterday while at work and continued today.

I'm not sure why I'm even posting at this point, because that just bumps her stupid thread back up, but this is what I found.

http://www.disboards.com/archive/index.php/t-2719695.html

This is a thread to her TR to WDW in May of 2011. If you read a bit of it you will see she has posted some pictures. The Photobucket username for those pictures is Sweetpeaches99.
Ok so we know for sure that OP is in fact Sweetpeaches99 in Photobucket.

Now by googling Sweetpeaches99 I found this other thread.

http://parenting.allwomenstalk.com/my-5-year-old-daughter-is-very-overweight-help/

In this thread she talks about her overweight child and how her child is autistic. AND she posts a picture of her daughter with the same exact Sweetpeaches99 account.
In the thread she also claims that she can't buy healthy food for her kids because she can't afford it.

Then she procedes to say that her children are perfectly fine, she's not on assistance and she can afford going to WDW and planning a cruise...

I find it hilarious that she wouldn't think people could find out this information!!

OP you may be depressed, but let me tell you, you have some serious mental issues and you need to get help! REAL HELP!
I feel sorry for your kids! And if any little bit of what you post is true, then CPD should really look into your case!!

Call me a stalker, I don't care. You put information for everyone out there to see, you're no victim, your kids are the true victims. No wonder you have no friends, take a real good look in the mirror and go talk to a professional.

"Oh, what a tangled web we weave..."



OP, I agree with the above. I will not berate you for the things you've done, but above all else, PLEASE take the meds you've been prescribed. For the sake of your children. You may thrive on the drama you've created, but it's slowly killing your kids. Please take the help you've been given.

 

[cabanafrau]

He doesn't want to see his kids. He only wants to see them because I guilted him into it. If he wanted to see them on a consistent basis I would welcome it but I see no good in a one time visit. I need consistency.

I still cannot understand what good your children will get out of consistent visitation w/ someone you've described before as a charming sociopath?

You need consistency? This should be about the kids' needs.

 

[phorsenuf]

Lol... that guy was a TOTAL loser I had a good time mind f**king him .

Buh-bye

 

[grunt0331]

Like Whitney said, "CRACK IS WHACK"!

 

[happygirl]

Lol... that guy was a TOTAL loser I had a good time mind f**king him .

I'm out. I feel for your kids. I pray that you will get the help you need

 

[focusondisney]

Lol... that guy was a TOTAL loser I had a good time mind f**king him .

Nice language for a family message board. What a loser.

 

[RayaniFoxmur]

Lol... that guy was a TOTAL loser I had a good time mind f**king him .

Aww you were trolling so well then you just blew it.

Show's over folks!

 

[kellyg403]

He doesn't want to see his kids. He only wants to see them because I guilted him into it. If he wanted to see them on a consistent basis I would welcome it but I see no good in a one time visit. I need consistency.

I will just say, regardless of anything else, you don't need anything. Your children need to spend time with their dad, regardless of whether it is weekly or yearly. They need to know what kind of father he is and not what you tell them or they think he might be. Honestly, it is good for your children to know and love their parent. He might be inconsistent now because you seem to want to butt in all the time and make it more about you then them. You can't make his visitation difficult. I know you are saying this is about your children and protecting them, but in fact you are doing the exact opposite.

I do agree with others though, you really need to take the meds and get healthy. I think once the chemical situation is balance you may be able to cope more with situations that might not be totally as you like them to be.

Kelly

 

[HersheyKisses]

like I asked in a previous post. Why don't you try to work through his family. He might be willing to deal with them?

His family is not in contact with me . They are low down people . I have no interest in dealing with them.