I Guess Rules Aren't for Adults

KarenC

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I can't believe some people. My son manages the park district indoor pool. He is also a lifeguard. Last year, he was his marching band's drum major so he's comfortable keeping everyone on the straight and narrow (i.e., giving orders ;) ). He also takes the safety aspect of his job very seriously.

Today an older woman comes to the pool to swim laps. She's chewing gum. Chewing gum is not allowed at the pool. My son politely asks her to dispose of her gum. She tells him no. :confused3 He tells her he's sorry, but he has to enforce the rules and she can't swim with gum. She says, "what are you, 18, and you're telling me what to do?" She leaves in a huff.

My son leaves the front desk for a while and notices that she's swimming and still has gum in her mouth. He asks again if she would dispose of her gum. She refuses again and asks if he's going to call security. He says he might have to. She says she knows they don't have on site security. He says ma'am, our security is the town police! Finally she leaves, still chomping on her gum.

My son's manager says she has his back but I'm sure we haven't heard the end of this. There are some people in our community with such a sense of entitlement. But if the kids do something wrong, there's zero tolerance.

Maybe the woman has a screw loose but I don't understand why you'd dig in your heels over gum. It takes all kinds.
 
Good for your son for standing up to her. People like that just need to stay home. He did his job and it sounds like he has a boss that will back him.

Wow that is the way things are supposed to work! Too bad it is so rare in our world these days.

Tell your son good job! You should be proud. :thumbsup2
 
Why is it that some adults feel they can show disrespect to authority, just because the authority is younger. That woman had no class, bravo to your son for not only standing up to her, but also keeping his cool.
 
Now if that was turned around "the boy not respecting the old lady", then there would be the rightous complaining about how the world is coming to an end because kids today have no sense of respect (for elders). Yet elders don't respect.
 

CJMickeyMouse said:
Wow that is the way things are supposed to work! Too bad it is so rare in our world these days.

I wonder what this woman's family would have done if she'd choked on her gum while swimming and drowned. Sue the park district, no doubt, for letting her swim with gum!
 
Laurajean1014 said:
Now if that was turned around "the boy not respecting the old lady", then there would be the rightous complaining about how the world is coming to an end because kids today have no sense of respect (for elders). Yet elders don't respect.

That's where I'm afraid this will head...
 
Thats sad, its just gum lady, goodness spit it out. Good for your son!
 
Some people think they are above all of the rules.

Good for your son sticking by his guns.
 
Your son disrespecting the woman...
If she had been following the rules he would not have had to "disrespect her". However, if he asked her politely then he was not disrespecting her.
Tell your son to hold his head high, he did the right thing!
 
Yes, its very common and very sad. :sad2: I work at a YMCA and our lifeguards get literally screamed at for asking adults to do or not do something. Then whoever it is will call the exec and say the lifeguards were rude to them!
 


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