I feel so defeated.

[Fishbone†]

I really hate myself right now. I know I’ve gained weight, and I want nothing more in the world than to get back to where I was…… I thought I was doing so well and I was losing a little at a time, and then this morning it was back up and I have no idea why because I was doing so well with my eating, and I haven’t even been snacking (bad for you stuff). So I was already feeling bummed out and since I have a cold, I went to get some hot water for tea (because it’s good for you and it doesn’t have any calories) and a co-worked stopped me to say “I see you’re gaining weight”, to which I just shrugged because I don’t need to hear it right now, and then she went on and on about how I can’t let that happen, and how my clothes don’t look good on me. She even went so far as to point out where I’m gaining weight, and how bad that shape looks. Then she proceeded to tell me how I should eat and what I should eat, and not to buy “Healthy Choice” anymore, which I never have. Did you know that I should pack a small lunch from home and then buy a salad from the cafeteria? Oh, and something about some wonderful chicken dish she makes. I just wanted to crawl in a hole and die.

God!!! I seriously want to run-away right now. I can’t stop hearing her words, and it just makes me cry.

 

[lisaviolet]

I really hate myself right now. I know I’ve gained weight, and I want nothing more in the world than to get back to where I was…… I thought I was doing so well and I was losing a little at a time, and then this morning it was back up and I have no idea why because I was doing so well with my eating, and I haven’t even been snacking (bad for you stuff). So I was already feeling bummed out and since I have a cold, I went to get some hot water for tea (because it’s good for you and it doesn’t have any calories) and a co-worked stopped me to say “I see you’re gaining weight”, to which I just shrugged because I don’t need to hear it right now, and then she went on and on about how I can’t let that happen, and how my clothes don’t look good on me. She even went so far as to point out where I’m gaining weight, and how bad that shape looks. Then she proceeded to tell me how I should eat and what I should eat, and not to buy “Healthy Choice” anymore, which I never have. Did you know that I should pack a small lunch from home and then buy a salad from the cafeteria? Oh, and something about some wonderful chicken dish she makes. I just wanted to crawl in a hole and die.

God!!! I seriously want to run-away right now. I can’t stop hearing her words, and it just makes me cry.

Fishbone. She's an idiot. Pointe finale!!!!!!!!! An idiot. Please, and I know that this is very very difficult, don't give her time in your head. I can't even believe what I'm reading. She must be an unhappy person.

Also, the scale can be so frustrating. I've seen 3 pound swings simply from not digesting well. So don't focus on that too much.

Also, you don't need to eat "well" all the time to lose weight. I've been eating totally normally, less but normal with chocolate, fries etc and healthy food I love, and lost weight. So don't get caught up in good and bad foods. EDIT: I just noticed your clippie. Forget my rambling. You already know how to be successful.

I'm sending you good thoughts. I'm so sorry that happened. So sorry. Honestly, I wish I could hug you through the computer.

Lisa

 

[DisneyWorld Delight]

Did you point out to her that rude agressive behavior on her really looks bad. There's another word for it. Rhymes with Witch.

Don't let idiots walk all over you in a passive agressive "friendly" way. Next time, speak up for yourself.

 

[MickeyT]

I know it may sound kinda hollow right now but I would much rather be a large content/happy person than a small miserable little snot. By the very fact that you are here at W.I.S.H. and the way you did your signature show that you know there are much more important things to accomplish in this life than this person may ever know!!! Hang in there with the rest of us.

 

[Tiger Lily 03]

By now, I do WISH that this was a minor little irritant in a big sea of wonderful things.

You know what it is to get to that goal. If you've slipped some, yeah it happens, but you know how to get it back and it sounds to me like you are doing it.

Do not give the other person at work permission to get to you. You are great!

Your clippie is an inspiration to all of us--let it reflect back on you now.

Keep on keepin' on...